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So overwhelemed
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So first off ive never even kissed a guy and i'm in sophmore year...some of you will think oh that's not bad but it really take a tole on you when all your friends have and all they talk about is guys and their boyfriends =(, I have the smallest boobs ( they won't be getting any bigger because of my genes) my mom was small too. ANyway those things make me very self concious.But anyway i reallly need your help trying to undetstand this guy.
So me and this guy started talking and well everything seemed to be good but i don't know if this is normal things guys do. They text you one day saying" lets hang out" and the next day they don't text you for days making you sit there and wonder if you did something wrong. I really didn't even care that much I basically was like ok whatever. but then he did it alot.like i will text him ( and the other way around) and i'll say something and he won't text me back for a loonng time. He always asks how my day is I'm just confused should i wait I mean i'm really not going anywhere aha but still is this good bad? I try to wait a while to text him back maybe like waiting for me you know? Can you give me ideas making him want me like he does to me?? thankyou<3
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Okay well i am 15 years old, and i have plenty of experiences with guys but i still get super confused with them i actually just asked a questin on here about one. But many guys do that! Or they will just take from 30 seconds to 2 hours + to answer a text. When that happens to mee when i finally get the answer i delay answering as much as possible. But i also ask them what they are you doing, in a casual way "so what are you up too?" and if they say nothing, just say something like well your obviously doing something because it took you forever to answer. Just make him aware that he took along time to answer. But also be careful with guys. Cause it seems ur new to the guy life. Just dont fall head over heals for anyone you do not know to well, odds that they might hurt you could be easy.
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Hey I really understand I am only 13 but trust me alllll of my friends have kissed guys too!!!!, and I feel miserable and my most recent boyfriend I had wanted to kiss me and I FREAKED out haha and said no.I regret it to this day, but I can make a guy like me in one night trust me i've done it before let me tell you have There are 2 methods I have and trust me they both work. Now one what kind of guy is he? Is he the one who gets in trouble alot or is he the good type or the sporty type?? oh and before i get into the methods about the guy not texting you back for long periods of time wella guy i liked a while ago before he became my boyfriend he would be doing the same thiing so don't worry he's just doing something because he still did that when we went out. ok so back to the method. Like I said what type of guy is he? ok so the guy that I tried this on and it worked over night he is goofy and gets introuble alot ok so this is what i did, I texted him and just said hey whats up then he replied and said I am out eating, now work with that i thought hmm, and came up with an answer that sounds like his personality I said oh sounds good I am starving my dad fixed supper but i didn't eat because he ticked me off, then he replied your a little rebel. So see that worked I was getting on a good start. So what I basicly did was take his personality and built it in to what i said and I had fun with it and by the end of the night he asked me out. Now wasn't that simple(: If you don't want to do that then here is another way but it will take more then 1 night it took me a month or 2 once and one time it took me 7!!! but it was worth it ok so. Step 1: does he play sports? If your guy does go to his games!!! guys love that! trust me! now number 2: guys love it when you give them nicknames! I did it and it worked now nothing stupid try animal names such as monkey, thats what I did. Now threee FLIRT! (: (: (: that helps majorly!! and another so so thing if you mess up or try to show off guys think its funny so don't feel bad it's helping(: I hope this helps girl!!! (: good luck!
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Dont worry about it! lol Im 19 and ive never kissed a boy either. You'll learn that there are more important things in life. About the boobs, omg, Victoria's Secret has this amazing bra, called the miracle bra. My friend uses it - she has barely anything - and boy does it work miracles!
Well if the kid takes a while to text back, then either he lost interest or he is losing interest. Try ignoring him. Some guys go crazy when the girl stops chasing and they come running back like little sick puppies.
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oh godd i deff know what you are going though with you texting him, and then one day he's not answering. Okay to me being through this tons and tons of times, there can be two possible explanations.
1. he could just be busy
2. he could be playing games
do the same thing to him, i used to do it to a kid i liked, if he didn't text back for a hour or soo i would wait a hour or so to text him back, and it would drive him crazy, but you never really know how a guy is unless you talk to him. Just be like "why is it one minute you text me, and the next you don't. you make no sense, do you like me or not?. personally this is what i would do, and i know how people don't like to confront their crushes or whatever, but from experience, saying nothing is not going to change it, especially if it's bothering you.. soo i think you should talk to him
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