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There's this girl I hang out with a lot. We've known each other since we were little kids. We grew up together and we're both 15 now. For 4 years now I've fallen for her hard. I daydream of her all of the time. I dream of her at night. I can't get her out of my head. I love everything about her from the way she smiles to the smell of her hair when I'm close to her. I always seem to find myself making excuses to see her more often. I feel like I'm obsessed because my feelings for her are so strong I can't have a proper girlfriend (I always end up being distant to them, not really wanting to date them, and dumping them early on because of my lack of interest).
I've kept these feelings a secret but sometimes I think I should tell her. I'm afraid she won't feel the same though, and I'll end up ruining the friendship. I know I sound like such a wuss here but the emotions are so intense and I've kept them in so long.
What's the best thing to do in this particular situation? Should I tell her and risk everything? Should I keep this stuff bottled in? (link)
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I would tell her because you don't want to sit back and be wondering what could have been, and if she don't feel the same way then at least you know. From experience i don't think it will ruin your friendship with her, if anything it might make it stronger..you don't want to keep those feelings bottled up eithe, whats life worth if not taking a risks, especially because you love this girl..i say go for it! hope i helped (:
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This will be long....
So first off ive never even kissed a guy and i'm in sophmore year...some of you will think oh that's not bad but it really take a tole on you when all your friends have and all they talk about is guys and their boyfriends =(, I have the smallest boobs ( they won't be getting any bigger because of my genes) my mom was small too. ANyway those things make me very self concious.But anyway i reallly need your help trying to undetstand this guy.
So me and this guy started talking and well everything seemed to be good but i don't know if this is normal things guys do. They text you one day saying" lets hang out" and the next day they don't text you for days making you sit there and wonder if you did something wrong. I really didn't even care that much I basically was like ok whatever. but then he did it alot.like i will text him ( and the other way around) and i'll say something and he won't text me back for a loonng time. He always asks how my day is I'm just confused should i wait I mean i'm really not going anywhere aha but still is this good bad? I try to wait a while to text him back maybe like waiting for me you know? Can you give me ideas making him want me like he does to me?? thankyou (link)
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oh godd i deff know what you are going though with you texting him, and then one day he's not answering. Okay to me being through this tons and tons of times, there can be two possible explanations.
1. he could just be busy
2. he could be playing games
do the same thing to him, i used to do it to a kid i liked, if he didn't text back for a hour or soo i would wait a hour or so to text him back, and it would drive him crazy, but you never really know how a guy is unless you talk to him. Just be like "why is it one minute you text me, and the next you don't. you make no sense, do you like me or not?. personally this is what i would do, and i know how people don't like to confront their crushes or whatever, but from experience, saying nothing is not going to change it, especially if it's bothering you.. soo i think you should talk to him
xoxox
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