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Member Since: December 22, 2010
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Last Update: December 24, 2010
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I asked my ex new gf if she love him and she said she really do love him! i cant stop crying because i love him and he love me too but he told me that he broke up with her! now he's locked up so i don't know what to do :'( I said i was going to let him go since she love him because when me and him was going out all these girls try to come between us and i guess i don't want her to feel the same as i did! i dont know what to do! :'( (link)
I am in the same situation that you are! But I have decided that Im just going to be friends with him and flirt with him alittle bit. I really love this guy like you love your ex and it is hard to see him with someone else but if you really do love your ex you will let him be happy. And if he is happy with her there is nothing you can do about that. Who knows maby you and your ex will get back together. I hope you too do. I hope I could help!


i used to talk to a guy. he's 17. Lets call him A. we've been talking for about 8 months (i know. way too long to be "talking") about 2 months ago were hanging out and one thing led to another, i lost my virginity to him. we we're really good; it seemed to have brought us closer. about a month ago he told me he loved me but i didn't say it back. he understood why i didn't say it. about a week ago I was talking to one of our mutual friends and she said that A has been telling her he's "done" with me for a while. A and i had plans that day too which i ended up canceling. he said he didn't care anymore. the next few days another one of our mutual friends (he's closer to me) was with me a lot at school. he's also 17. i'll call him B. every time i was with B, A would come NEAR us with a serious face and not say anything. A's also been coming too close to me. i was sitting down and he was literally over me reaching for something that was on the opposite side. he comes around me a lot but he doesn't talk to me. he talks to everyone around me while staring at me. I just realized how stupid he sounds haha. I'm not sure why he's acting like this when he supposedly told our friend he's done with me. I still have feelings for him but i'm not sure what to do. I still haven't confronted him about him saying he's "done" with me but i will. i don't think it has to due with sex because we rarely have it and there's A LOT of girls that are always trying to get with him. I need advice on what I should do? any ideas on what's going on with us or why he's acting this way? (link)
I think you need to confront him and ask him what he ment when he said he was done with you. I can tell you really care about him. But A does kinda sound like a jerk no offence. Im not trying to be mean or nothing but if he has sex with you and then ingores you there is something wrong with that. But when you confront him tell him how you feel, tell him you really care about him. Who knows, you may be better off without him. Just rember no matter what happens that it happened for a reason. I everything turns out good for you.




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