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He just doesn't understand: All he wants is sex all the time
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 10:59 pm
i'm 22f still a virgin (yes i know but only because i live in a small place and i'm either related to the guys here or they don't like me in that way)
Anyways i'm been in an online relationship with this guy for almost 2 years now. We plan on meeting up to whenever both of us have enough money, just to see where things lead.
One of the things we well do is have sex of coruse. I'm not asking for tips or whatever, the thing is he thinks we'll have sex most of the time when we meet up and that's fine, i wouldn't mind that.
He said a few mins ago that couples who first start dating its nothing but sex for a while. I get that i really do. Thing is i rarely get in the mood, and plus when we do meet i d...
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How do I talk to my boyfriend about sex?
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 8:37 pm
I'm 19. He's 18. When we first started going out (over a year ago) and started rounding the bases, he'd try to initiate sex. Like we'd be naked and making out on his bed, and he'd just give me this look, and we both knew what it meant - but I always shot him down because I wasn't ready at the time.
Then, last summer, I didn't turn him down. It didn't happen, however; he lost his erection about two seconds after he put the condom on.
He hasn't tried since. Once I took the initiative and asked if he wanted to do it, but still nothing happened 'cause he didn't have a condom (sigh.). And then he said something along the lines of "I don't have one 'cause I thought you wanted to wait 'til college". I made ...
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Is he mad at me for not finishing??
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 5:56 pm
I just gave my friend a bj (I'm a girl) it lasted about 5 minutes when I had to stop... he told me that I was good but I didn't believe him. ...he didn't *** but I told him I was sorry...we are both virgins and it was my first time so I as very nervous, he kept holding onto my hair and pushing my head down, it felt good so I didn't gag,so after I finishd we hugged and he left, WE DIDN'T EVEN KISS, AND WE AREN'T DATING!!!! was it a mistake (I'm 13)
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I need an excuse to talk to him.
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 5:04 pm
Soo I'm really interested in this guy but I've never actually had a conversation with him. He's everything I'm looking for in a guy, and I'm extremely picky. I really want an excuse to talk to him but I feel like if I just messaged him on facebook it'd be kinda weird. One of my good friends is friends with him but I'm kinda scared to just ask her to set me up. I don't want to sound desperate and I don't want her to think I'm using her. I know where he works cause I see him there all the time but it'd be weird to go to his work and like randomly start a conversation..idk...and I guess it doesn't help that I'm really shy haha. Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks.
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I like him, he sort of likes me, What do I do?????????!
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 5:00 pm
I like my friend, whom I've only known for about two or three weeks. i don't believe in love at first sight so that's out of the question. My friend boyfriend decided to talk to him and He Told him he had had a little crush on me but doesn't fully like me because he doesn't now me all well. I like him because not only is he cute but he has a shy, sweet and humorous personality.Or as i described him "metaphorically sweet and stupid."
He's knows I like him, we've talked to each other about this, but he said before anything he wants to know me more. we're both nervous to talk to each other also.. my question is **what do i do?** i want to know him more but I'm afraid I'll do something to mess my chances up, or that something will go wrong..and i don't want that..
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I finally told him I love him
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 4:50 pm
I knew this guy for a year, we talked everyday. Over the summer we stopped talking a bit the most we would go without talking would be 3 days and we stopped telling each other every little thing that happened. High school then started for us and we were sent to different ones(regretting that so much) After a month of high school I heard 4 different people tell me he likes me , i was happy with this but i didn't really believe it. During September to December we stopped talking even more then the summer time , about 2 or 3 days a week. Then sadly December came along and he stopped saying hi like usual and for a month we didnt talk. I thought we would never talk again. I sent him a invite on the last day of december for a website and he answe...
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She doesn't want to be with me anymore
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 3:54 pm
my girl dont wanna be with me anymore we got into it really bad and i have tried everything that i could think of. what do i do?
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husband flirting
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 3:22 pm
My husband has been texting a co-worker of his and admitted to flirting with her. When I confronted him the first time he said he would stop. I found out he deletes all of her messages because I looked at the phone records. He was really upset when I confronted him the second time. This has been going on for over a year. I also just found out he has been receiving and texting porn to his friends. He's suddenly going to the gym and into his appearance. I have major self esteem issues right now and really need his support. I was diagnosed with leukemia and getting ready for a bone marrow transplant. I have lost my hair due to chemo. I realize I can't do much with my appearance right now because of the radiation and chemo. I do try to make ...
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sex life: How do i make it tighter?
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 2:01 pm
okay so ive had sex with only two of my boyfriends.. the first boy i lost it too, it never felt good like the only way i could orgasim was if he touched me during sex or if i was on top of him(ocassionaly).. but then when i had sex with my second boyfriend and i could only orgasim on top.. (but alot more) but he is fairly large. like it took a long time for me to get him inside.. but now like he can just go in and its not good anymore lol therefore i think im loose so i cant really orgasim at all anymore if that makes sence even on top? its not just sex, its making love with eachother. so basically how do i tighten back up? do i just have to not have sex for months or something? someoneee please help me understand my body or how to make it tighther >:/
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Should we still be friends?
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 1:00 pm
Okay I hang out with this guy at school and were really close. Well I think he likes me and then he goes and asks out my best friend what kinda guy does that!!!!
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My quiet gf
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 12:59 am
Ive had millions of gfs. More than most and know more about girls than just about everyone. I have millions of friends come to me about of advice on how to get a girl and my advice always works, but im with this one girl and i cant seem to figure her out. Shes so quite. i mean like ive had plenty of shy gfs before and ive been a talker and im funny so its always been easy to open them up and get them talking but this girl is impossible. We kiss and make-out but Even i (btw im an actor so i have to know how to talk well and come up with stuff on the spot) am having trouble on finding things to talk about. She only shakes her head and shrugs. I think shes afraid she might say something stupid or immature cause im older and shes not used to d...
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get an ex back
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 10:36 pm
ok so me and my girlfriend broke up over a month ago and we would see eachother almost everyweek atleast ones after that and it was amazing. but she still didnt want to get back with me and 2 weeks ago she started talking to someone else. and it looks like shes really into that person and all her friends love that person and they didnt really like me. and i really want her back cause i love her. what should i do to get her back????? im a girl btw.
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me and my wife fight all the time
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 9:14 pm
keeps me up all night when i have to wake up for work at 4:00 in the moring
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wat do i say after that
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 6:44 pm
ok me n my girlfriend say i love you and all that but wat do u say right after that....i mean after i love you too and wat could i say besides just i ove you too just so it doesnt seem routine ...and if u have any other romantic tips or anything like that id appreciate it ... age 14 male
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I don't know if I should see him again..
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 4:16 pm
so call me stupid, but I met up with this guy I met online a few days ago who I actually have mutual friends with and who lives a town over. He was sweet and bought me coffee and we walked around and talked for a while, getting to know each other. Until I stupidly obliged to go to his house with him (even though his parents were home -he's 20 almost 21 by the way, I'm 19). we just hung out for a while until he put it in a movie and that's where things took a turn...I had actually never even been kissed before (yeah, at 19) and obviously also never done anything else. well, we kissed, and did more.. we didn't have sex, which I'm glad we didn't, but I know he wouldve gladly wanted to. he's not a virgin and really experienced.
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Can this be my happy ever after
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 3:45 pm
i'm 22 f and my bf is 24 we've been together for 4 months but were friends for 2 years before. resently conversations about the future have been coming up. he says that he would love to marry me and be with me always but wants to be together for longer before he makes that comitment. however when the subject of kids came up he was more excited. i want to have kids with him but i feel that this is more important to him then marriage. which doesn't fly in my books. i'm a little old fashioned that way. is this just me being crazy or should i really worry about it.
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I kinda wanna be with other guys...
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 2:32 pm
I'm 16 i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, and its gotten to the point where we fight a lot but any time i try to leave him, he talks me out of it, i kinda wanna be with other guys but im not sure, i love him. But i've been talking to this other guy (just friends) and i fell for him, and i just dont know what to do about it because i love my boyfriend, but there;s always that temptation to be with someone else.. HELP!
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Starting Over
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 11:14 pm
Kinda long! But please I need your opinion!
22/f. I recently started talking to a guy that I met on tagged. I haven't seen him in person but we have seen pictures of eachother. We've been talkin for over a week now, almost all hours of the night, and I swear we can have a conversation about anything. I will admit, I am not the type to talk on the phone, so it MUST be serious if I'm sacrificing what little sleep I already get because I enjoy talking to him. For once, I'm talkin to a guy who is like myself in very many ways and is not about sex and all that. I can tell he is a very genuine person. We are both very focused on being friends first....
The thing is I know that one day he is going to want to meet me i...
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Pregnant and dont think i am in love with my boyfriend..
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 6:54 pm
I am 23 years old and Me and my boyfriend were together about a month when i found out i was pregnant(with my first)I am now 12 weeeks along and things are not looking good. We have been arguing and i catch him in little lies about stupid things. Which makes me wonder if he lies about other bigger things. I dont think i am in love with him but i am afraid to break up cause i don't want my kid to not have a father.. I only say this because he has a daughter already that he never goes and sees of make an effort to be a good father. Is staying with someone for a baby a bad thing or am i stressing about nothing??
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Good friends.....moving on to more?
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 4:51 pm
Okay, here's the dealio. I'm in tenth grade and the guy I like is in eleventh. We've known each other since I was in sixth grade because we're on the same bus. We only ever talk on the bus, but I really like him.
Nearly a month and a half ago now he told me that he likes me and I told him that I like him, too. But now he hasn't done anything. He still talks to me, but he acts like it nevet happened. Sometimes he says something that makes me think he's about to ask me out, but he never does.
If he really liked me, wouldn't he have asked me out by now? Was he just saying that, or maybe he meant that he liked me as a person, but not like THAT, even though he was shy to tell me and made me guess?
Or maybe he chan...
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