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I finally told him I love him
I knew this guy for a year, we talked everyday. Over the summer we stopped talking a bit the most we would go without talking would be 3 days and we stopped telling each other every little thing that happened. High school then started for us and we were sent to different ones(regretting that so much) After a month of high school I heard 4 different people tell me he likes me , i was happy with this but i didn't really believe it. During September to December we stopped talking even more then the summer time , about 2 or 3 days a week. Then sadly December came along and he stopped saying hi like usual and for a month we didnt talk. I thought we would never talk again. I sent him a invite on the last day of december for a website and he answered me and we started talking that day until he had to go. It was an amazing chat , just like how we use to be so tight ,but the next day proved differently and it was like the summer all over again. That night i sent him a message saying that i've liked him for a while and im waiting on a response. What do I do ? help please .
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If you sent me that e-mail I would have fallen off my seat. It's a shocker and must have been for him. He probably has no idea how to react to it.
If he likes you he eventually will say something to you about it. In the event he doesn't feel the same way I think he's going to act like he never received it or carry on as usual.
He might not like you back and this may be the reason he's been mute. Then again, maybe he hasn't read it. When it comes to teenagers and admissions of liking/loving someone else don't do it over text, e-mail, IM as you never know who those details get shared with or if people will taunt you.
I doubt he's like that but I'm just saying sending the e-mail was a mistake regardless of outcome. I recommend you wait a good 2-3 weeks and then approach him yourself. Be brave.
Tell him that you wrote him an e-mail expressing thoughts and feelings that you really wish you never sent. I'm sure he'll relate. Tell him you feel very vulnerable as a result and want to know where things stand and or could go.
That way you get closure to this. Who knows, maybe it will turn out well but brace for both and if he's a creep any kind of crap storm if what you sent him ever goes into circulation in rumor mill.
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I would tell to just wait it out. i know you you want to talk to him but he just wont because he's a boy. no. he just wants to figure things out. so give him a little time. now if it's been two to three weeks then try to have a normal conversation like nothing happened for a couple days then bring up the message you sent him. If he doesn't wanna talk about it then he gave up. when i say this is it naturally takes months to actually GET OVER someone truly you might truly think it. but once in awhile your mind wanders to him. Give him a chance i'm not telling you to give up on him.
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