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My quiet gf
Ive had millions of gfs. More than most and know more about girls than just about everyone. I have millions of friends come to me about of advice on how to get a girl and my advice always works, but im with this one girl and i cant seem to figure her out. Shes so quite. i mean like ive had plenty of shy gfs before and ive been a talker and im funny so its always been easy to open them up and get them talking but this girl is impossible. We kiss and make-out but Even i (btw im an actor so i have to know how to talk well and come up with stuff on the spot) am having trouble on finding things to talk about. She only shakes her head and shrugs. I think shes afraid she might say something stupid or immature cause im older and shes not used to dating older guys. I'm not used to dating younger girls although shes not that much younger. Im 15 and shes 13. She sure don't look 13 though. She beautiful beyond words. Ive dated chicks that were scared cause they don't think there good enough for me cause they know ive dated around a lot and think my previous gfs are better than them but this is beyond that. She has no interests and is very shy even though shes says shes not. ive never asked for advice on this kind of matter before and in a way feel embarrassed of asking for it now cause ive always given this kind of advice, never received. If anyone has any ideas please share or email me. My adress is
actor.ajthedford@gmail.com. Thank's
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she probably has lack of confidence...I know i would if i was dating a guy ur age.I'm also thirteen, ive never had a boyfriend before..i can relate. Shes probably scared and wants reassurance. tell her its ok to speak your mind.Tell her its ok to make mistakes, sometimes. Dont take it so seriously, yet, though shes only thirteen take it easy on her. Tell her how beautiful she is. Take her bowling, go see a movie, or even watch a movie with her at home. Be patient and sympathetic to whatever she does. Be kind and let her know your there for her. Again, shes only 13, its probably one of her first relationships, and she probably doesnt know how to act in a relationship. I hope this helps..Good luck!Rate me if u'd like!
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You're girlfriend is 13 years old
Likewise, She is new to dating. It could very well be a number of other things. Maybe your girlfriend is introverted, Maybe you both don't have anything in common? You didn't go into details but these are possibilities.
Try talking to her, Find ways you could help her become more comfortable in the relationship. However, If you are not happy with your girlfriend then you need to tell her that and be honest with her.
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You guys just might not have anything in common, and that's completely okay. Another thing is the fact that she's 13 years old. You may not be new to dating, but she more than likely is. I'm not sure if you're her first boyfriend, or if she's had others before you, but she's young. You probably make her nervous. I'm sure she will open up eventually. Maybe she's scared of saying something you'll find stupid. Maybe she doesn't know what to say to you. I'm sure you guys will find something, and if you don't, then you're not meant to be. Don't try to force it though. If she is going to open up, she will do it on her own. Just give her some time. If she doesn't end up opening up, stay her friend but end the relationship. Not everyone is compatible.
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To give you some ideas on why girls are so quiet well she might be nervous around you because you make her feel nervous she's 13 years old.
What you should do is accept her for who she is. If that is who she wants to be then just accept that she's a quiet girl. Make sure that you let her know that you accept her no matter what. If there is a problem with her she should open up and tell you only if she feels safe and secure.
Next, make her laugh so she feels comfortable with you. Talk about a subject that can want her to open up. Talk about what she likes and make her laugh with you too, so she can feel comfortable with you.
Opposites attract you know :)
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I think you need to just talk to her about how shy she is. I have dated shy guys who just do not talk and it didnt work for me because i was hyper and very active and social. Talk to her about it tell her there isnt any reason to be shy or any reason to think youll say something stupid tell her how beautiful you think she is and make her feel very comfortable.
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Just a shot in the dark here. She is 13 and just may be a little immature to be dating.
All teenagers go through puberty which starts just around or before your teenage years. More goes on during puberty for girls than for boys. For boys puberty means their voice changes, they lose there baby fat and they have a growth spurt. For girls a lot more happens. Your girl friend may be dealing with all these changes along with the social changes that come with puberty.
If my shot in the dark is correct she may not know how to handle these situation. As a parent I would say at 13 she is to young to be dating. If she was my daughter she would be restrict to group dating such as mall dates and such.This would give her time to adjust socially and physically to being a woman.
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Not everyone is compatible. I once dated a guy who was adorable, the sweetest guy ever. I ended up breaking up with him because we just had nothing to talk about.
Raise your concerns with your girlfriend, and if she doesn't open up then you probably just aren't compatible with each other. She may be happy being super quiet.
And just so you know, having had "millions" of girlfriends speaks of a lack of experience, not an excess, so don't be ashamed of asking for advice. It's easy to get the girl: keeping her is the hard part. Everyone needs help with these things.
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