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Valentine's Day Ideas


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 9:22 pm

Okay, so I just realized this year's Valentine's Day falls on a Monday.

Problem is, it's a school day. My boyfriend and I go to the same college. However, on Mondays, with our schedules, we have no free time in common, not until the last class of the day. Mine ends at 5pm, his..after 8.

Keeping in mind that we can't leave campus and his and my roommates are probably gonna be in their respective rooms that day, what can we even do on V-day that'll be even SOMEWHAT special? We can't do anything over the weekend because chances are, I'll be celebrating my mom's birthday.

Help?

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boys giving you attion


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 9:03 pm

all the boys be saying they like me and kissing on me what does this means

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playing a player?


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 8:22 pm

Hey, so there's this guy I like and he's kind of a player. Only a little though. I was wondering what are some ways to play his game better? Anthing on this will help. Thanks! I'm 16 and he's 17.

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why I don't love the one that loves me ?


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 6:35 pm

Why is it that we fall in love with the bad boys, but reject the guys that are so called nerds, that love us? I'm a 45 yr old female, he's 56 years old. to me that seems old.

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how to advice some one to change


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 12:37 pm

what can u say to someone to make the person change his lifestyle.

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Boys Don't Seem To Like Me


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 7:25 am

Boys just don't seem to like me (and the ones that do have girlfriends...go figure). I'll be the first to admit that I'm a girls girl. I don't really have a lot of guy friends. But I am 19 and in college. Not to sound narcissistic but i'm decent looking, and i am in the best sorority at my school. I don't know how to fix this.

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I want him to kiss me


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 3:45 am

Ok theres a guy I like he's always been very on and off with me... He's told me before that he wants to kiss me yet he hasn't we've only hung out a couple times tho... I want to go to his work tomo and see if maybe he will walk me out after we talk or whatever and I really want him to kiss me! I kinda just feel like being like I came here for one thing and I want u to kiss me now.. But I know I'm too shy how can I get him to kiss me!

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im horrible when it comes to love :l


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 1:01 am

i was talking to a guy for a long time (over 6 months. he even told me he loves me), i don't know how to deal with people who screw me over. i found out two times (when we were mad at each other) he told people he didnt want to be with me even though were technically not together. then i found out he told one of his friends he should go out with me since he's liked me for a while. me being mad at my ex (or whatever you wanna call him) said yes to his friend. a couple days later i broke up with him, he completely understood. we're really good friends now but my ex keeps coming around me. he doesn't talk to me he talks to everyone around me. a couple of months ago we gave each other our bracelets as a little love thing lol well he's still we...

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Wanting what I'll never have...


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 12:53 am

I talked to this girl for like four months. We told each other everything, our deepest secrets. I think I may have loved her. She lives really far away, and I met her for the first time after the four months. We went to the movies, and hung out, but I was pretty shy. When I came back home, we never talked the same way again. Now she has a boyfriend... and I feel like I have no right to be bothered by it, but I just can't help it. She is literally the only thing I ever think about, and I don't understand why. I can't stop thinking about her, and I just want to get over her. I'm just so lonely now, and I want her more than anything else. But I don't WANT to want her. I want to stop having this empty feeling every time I think of her, and I don't know how. Can anyone help?

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If a guy friend touches you, does he like you?


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 9:59 pm

so i want to know, i was in one of my classes. and one of my guy friends just randomly got closer to mean and then touched my face, i was so confused and shocked. what does this mean?? does he like me??

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Trying to start over but I am obsessed with him


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 7:37 pm

me and my boyfriend have had rough times but anyways... Were trying to start over but my problems is im so obsessively in love with him, and hes sort of just really realxed with us at the moment. Like i want to always hold him kiss him love him you know, and he really doesnt like making out with me like we use too. Things are just different. I'm trying to relax my feelings and just "chill" but its hard when their so strong you know. We broke up like three weeks ago because he said he just wanted to be friends, he said he wanted to go out and have fun. So i stopped texting him, exc. like completely eliminated him from my life. But then he called me and i actually answered.. we talked and he said he couldnt stand the pain of not bei...

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Does he like me?


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 7:11 pm

I am 13 and the guy I like is 13 too. I am a female and he is a male. How do I know if he likes me? We are good friends. I know all his secrets and he knows all mine...we hang out a lot too. Does he like me, or like like me?

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valentines day


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 5:30 pm

i know its soon but my bf is 18 and valentines days coming up. we didnt get eachother stuff for christmas but i want to just send him something for valentines day. were in a long distance relationship. hes not very open about being affectionate and stuff and i dont think hed be into anything too "cutesy". and i dont really want to go alll out on this just a little something hed appreciate or get a smile out of. what do guys like to get as gifts? hes not at all into clothes or shopping and doesnt have any particular hobbies/things he needs. thanks.

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older boyfriend vs. my parents


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 4:38 pm

how can i convince my parents to be okay with the fact that i want to be with a 22 year old? they would not like the idea of it at all im seventeen i dont know how i can convince them to at least be okay with it. i havent said anything about this to them yet.

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Supporting boyfriend with Depression.


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 3:45 pm

18/F

My boyfriend has been very depressed for a while. It's mostly because of the way his parents treat him. They're constantly pressuring him to go into the military (even though he doesn't want to) and they're always calling him a failure, an idiot, dumb, etc.
The other day I talked to his mom about how they can stop pressuring him so much and to stop with the name calling.
Well, last night my boyfriend and his dad got into a physical fight and his parents kicked him out.

What are some things I can do to help my boyfriend feel complete, happy, and worthy?

Thank you!

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Men Like to Emotionally Distance Themselves From Me


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 2:01 pm

How do I stop men from emotionally withdrawing themselves from me? So I'm a 19 year old girl who has a problem with men emotionally withdrawing themselves from me.

I'm a relatively mature 19 year old, who usually gets along with people a few years older than me better than people my own age.

I have been through this with my two ex boyfriends, who are 24 and 26 year old men. At first the guy is extremely interested in me, he wants to see me all the time and he can't get enough of me, he falls for me sometimes even getting to the point of being in ove with me, then he decides to emotionally withdraw himself from me.

Then they'll me that they want to be friends with me, and that's all that they wa...

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I need help on new relationship


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 1:40 pm

I met this girl at church three and a half months ago. She is a good person and we are so compatible. I love her a lot. I have some issues with her not calling me until the late evening, not answering my texts or even remember my birthday! She doesn't work and her kids are at school. Plus, she is always busy to see me. She never commits to a time and if she does she rarely follows thru. I feel that new relationships require time together not once every three weeks. What should i do? Am I asking for too much? By the way she just left a abusive relationship before we met. now when do see each other she treats me and makes me feel special but I am hurt because I don't see her often.






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should i keep trying or just let it go


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 1:24 pm

About a year ago my ex lost his mother and then a couple weeks later his brother followed. And soon after that we ended up breaking up. I thought he had moved on because i found out that he was back with his ex girlfriend a month or two after we broke up. I was happy for him because it meant that she could help him cope with everything that had happened to him. We last talked in August and he was really rude so I never again tried to make contact with him until about a week ago he text me and we started talking again it was fine for a couple of days he seemed like his old self until a couple days ago he starts getting really depressed about his mom and brother and I try to talk to him and he shuts me out... But heres the thing he was with h...

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Marriage Problems.


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 12:51 pm

I have posted a couple questions about my husbands and my relationship the thing is the only respone I ever get is to leave him. What i am trying to say is i am scared to or feel that way. its like he does things that make me feel like he cares even though he doesnt work he doesnt help with the kids and he wastes money like i could go pick it off the trees. I feel obligated that i have to stay in this realtionship and that i couldnt just go ahead and kick him out.

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Should I trust him again?


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 12:08 am

Ok so I liked this guy he's a year older and I met him at the beggining of the school year.
I had a strong physical attraction to him so I waited for 2 months until his gf broke up with him.Then I started talking to him,through my friends who knew him.He was cute,funny,sweet,flirty,and caring,and little did I know he was the biggest flirt on this earth!
He would hold my hands,sit on my lap,hug me,walk with me to class,act like he was going to kiss me,compliment me all the time.Well one day one of his friends asked if he liked me and he said "yeah,I just want to get to know her better before I make it official."
And after that he quit talking to me,he ignored me!
So I got upset and left him alone for abo...

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