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im horrible when it comes to love :l


Question Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 1:01 am

i was talking to a guy for a long time (over 6 months. he even told me he loves me), i don't know how to deal with people who screw me over. i found out two times (when we were mad at each other) he told people he didnt want to be with me even though were technically not together. then i found out he told one of his friends he should go out with me since he's liked me for a while. me being mad at my ex (or whatever you wanna call him) said yes to his friend. a couple days later i broke up with him, he completely understood. we're really good friends now but my ex keeps coming around me. he doesn't talk to me he talks to everyone around me. a couple of months ago we gave each other our bracelets as a little love thing lol well he's still wearing it. i've realized i am in love with him unfortunately and i am so lost. i tried talking to him a couple days after breaking up with his friend but he just walked away. what should i do?

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GradingCurve answered Thursday January 20 2011, 1:03 pm:
He's feeling real vulnerable and somewhat protective about you and his feelings for you right now. It's actually quite adorable if you're still in love with him of course. However no one here can halp you decide whether or not to whole heartedly pursue rekindling your romance... of sorts...

It seems that ya'll bring out the worst in each other when you two are arguing. I'm not so sure if that's the best thing to expand on. Also, without verified commitments to each other, you both are playing the cat vs the ball of string game with each other. If your interested in staying in this confused state of emotional push-pull, then I recommend following him down his aisle of round-about-you torment..

Other than that... do what he did to you... and walk away. Until ya'll can actually have a conversation that leads to mutual understandings and expectations of each other.

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