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Should I trust him again?
Ok so I liked this guy he's a year older and I met him at the beggining of the school year.
I had a strong physical attraction to him so I waited for 2 months until his gf broke up with him.Then I started talking to him,through my friends who knew him.He was cute,funny,sweet,flirty,and caring,and little did I know he was the biggest flirt on this earth!
He would hold my hands,sit on my lap,hug me,walk with me to class,act like he was going to kiss me,compliment me all the time.Well one day one of his friends asked if he liked me and he said "yeah,I just want to get to know her better before I make it official."
And after that he quit talking to me,he ignored me!
So I got upset and left him alone for about 2 months,while he had gf afer gf.
So at a school dance we had he tried to make up with me,and he succeded.He danced with me and made me sit on his lap,nibbled on my neck,etc.
I thought he wanted to talk again so I went home,happy.Next week,nothing.
So I quit talking to him completely feeling hurt by him well one of my friends who hates him said he told her "I was ugly and I tried too hard to be pretty." Which is ridiculous considering how pretty he said I was and how I don't wear makeup so I can't "try" to be pretty.
So I was enraged I just couldn't stand him.Recently another one of my friends,a different one,who's best friends with him told me he said that he thought I hated him.So my friend and his also said "she doesn't hate you she just didn't know you were a huge flirt and you hurt her."
So he said "I want to apologize but she won't give me the time of day,I know it was wrong."
And lizzie told him about what the other girl said about me being ugly and trying too hard.
He said he never said that(come to find out she was lying about him saying that) he then called me beautiful,said he wants to be friends,and said he likes me but again wants to get to know me better.
I agreed to be friends but I'm a little worried that he just won't talk to me,again like last time.
So I was wondering if he don't talk to me,should I talk to him? And how could I trust him since he's a big flirt how would I know if he really likes me?
Any advice at all about anything with this story would be wonderful!
I'm so sorry if its really long I just thought that information would help.
Thanks in advance!
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I think he may of came off as the wrong way and that he really did mean to be nice. Your friend was lying about him and he seems like a great guy, so I would trust him for now. You cannot judge a person by one thing that happened, because of a friend. She LIED, because she doesn't like him and didn't want you to be with someone who may be bad. I think he is a caring guy cuz he said "I want to get to know her better". That shows that he wants to be with someone who cares about him and relates to him.
If he doesn't talk to you, just casually ask him if things are alright between you two and if you could hang out some more with him because you enjoy his company. If he is a big flirt, you could always mention that you hope what he is feeling for you is real, because you don't want to play mind games. By his response, you should be able to tell whether he is being real or not. Be aware though, for some flirts can play you. Get to know him, then decide. If you have the feelings, give him a chance. It doesn't matter what your friends say; if he is treating you right, cares for you and makes you laugh... go for it :) You will never know what could of been, unless you try <3
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