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should i keep trying or just let it go
About a year ago my ex lost his mother and then a couple weeks later his brother followed. And soon after that we ended up breaking up. I thought he had moved on because i found out that he was back with his ex girlfriend a month or two after we broke up. I was happy for him because it meant that she could help him cope with everything that had happened to him. We last talked in August and he was really rude so I never again tried to make contact with him until about a week ago he text me and we started talking again it was fine for a couple of days he seemed like his old self until a couple days ago he starts getting really depressed about his mom and brother and I try to talk to him and he shuts me out... But heres the thing he was with his ex for 7 months after his mom died how come he could act so cold towards me but have a real relationship with her? I don't get it.. I want to be there for him but I don't want to get screwed around either.. What should I do?
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you have to tell him that being rude to you is wrong cause all you trying to do is be nice and help and if he throws a fit then tell him to leave you alone.
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I think you shouldn't talk to him and let go he isn't allowing you to help him and he shuts you out it isn't right your offering to help him and he isn't taking it if someone's offering to help him he should take it so he'll be on his way to becoming better there isn't much you can do if he's refusing the help your offering i know he's going through a tough time right now but you don't deserve him acting cold towards you or for you to be reminded that he had a real relationship with his ex and not with you it isn't worth it i think if you continue to make contact with him you'll end up getting screwed over you don't know for sure if his behavior towards you is going to change if you were certain he was going to change then that'd be a different story but you don't your best option is to let it go before it's to late & you find out that he screwed you over & you end up becoming hurt from his actions :)
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I think maybe him and his ex have been together longer maybe and have a closer bond. You should probably leave him alone and not talk to him. He's been through a lot so that's probably why he's like that and maybe because he's not dating you or your ex and he feels alone. So just try and not talk to him and see how it goes. i hope i helped
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