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I get so jealous and i'm worried it will tear us apart
Posted Monday March 14 2011, 5:49 am
My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. We met online and he came he recently came here for a month and we had a few issues but we sorted them out and he assured me everything between us is fine...He's gone back now and he's staying at his guy mate's place until he gets back on the road to his home and one of his friends wants him to go see her when he gets back. I know nothing is going on between them, since he said he's nowhere near attracted to her whatsoever but I'm getting upset just thinking about when he does go see her, they'll hug and i don't know if she likes him or not. They don't talk often but he's been away from home for a very long time and it's understandable he wants to catch up with his friends but i get so ...
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pre-marital advices
Posted Monday March 14 2011, 5:03 am
what advices can be given to people before they get married?
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I don't know If I trust my boyfriend.
Posted Monday March 14 2011, 2:13 am
Okay so he booked a flight to Australia to be with me for 5 weeks, but to get to the airport(In L.A), he had to drive from Kansas. On google maps it says it should take 1 day, 14 hours...but it took him a little over 2 days...I trusted him then. he arrived back in L.A after his trip to me and he had to drive back to Detroit from L.A, the next day. Before he left his phone was cut off due to him not paying his phone bill while being over here in Australia so the last call i got from him was when he JUST arrived at L.A Airport on Thursday morning 3 am(my time)(it was about 9 am wednesday his time) so as of now, it's been 4 days since I heard from him...And google maps said it should take the same time to drive from L.A to detroit(As it said f...
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He still has feelings for me and our family but this new girl he really likes and wants to marry...
Posted Monday March 14 2011, 12:02 am
I left my homeland with our son to come to be with him in this new country. He promised me we would work together to make us work and build but it just got worse after 1 1/2year after asking him arent we moving forward he said half wants to be with the family the other half wants to be single. From there is got worse. We had an open relationship which did not involve sleeping with people but everything else. It made it worse then we cut it off and tried to focus on us but he got worse, putting me down about how i looked that no one would ever want me this carried on for 1 1/2. We tried counselling and i sought help then he finally snapped and said I'll marry you I'll do this and that but i was damaged and told him to do simple things to pro...
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Second base? I feel like if I don't, he'll get bored with me...
Posted Sunday March 13 2011, 11:44 pm
I am fifteen, a sophomore in high school. So I have been dating a guy for about two months now. We are perfect for each other: amazing chemistry, a lot in common, etc. I really feel like I love him. I have known him for a long time, since August.
We have kissed several times and he loves to cuddle and hold me. He wants to go to second base but I say no when he asks, only because I am not ready. I mean, I want to, but I am still shy and a little battered from my past relationship because it was constant physical love that pushed me to the edge. He is helping me get through my insecurites. I want to make him happy and pleasure him by letting him feel me up. But he understands if I am not ready.
Truthfully I ha...
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He's confusing me.....
Posted Sunday March 13 2011, 7:02 pm
Hi..I'm a 23 y/o female. I've come here to explain my story and hope.. i can find some sort of closure to what's on my mind. I..about..4 weeks ago have been seeing this guy, hes 27. No kids, and his last relationship was a while ago (4-5)years. He's a good guy, picks me up, takes me out. He won't let me pay for anything. We strictly only hang out on the weekends because he works during the week.. early. My schedule is all over the place so it doesn't matter for me, but i wait for those weekends to hang out with him. We've gone out 5 times..and i know it seems weird to take advice so soon, its just, im trying to protect myself from being hurt (once again). See thats my thing, i'm USED to being hurt, falling to fast, questioning everything. I...
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What is his deal??
Posted Sunday March 13 2011, 4:11 pm
I asked this guy from my work to go out with me and other friends, and we had a real good time. My friends left and it was just me and this guy for hours, I stayed forever at his house, we made out and other things..
He said he liked me.
I went out of town for a while. When I got back he totally just acted like we were strictly friends. I asked him bout it and he said he didn't want a girlfriend. He promised me though that he really did like me and thinks I'm cool.
So we are friends, we dint kiss, or have any sexual content, but he still asks me to hang with him just to hang out.
and i always catch him looking at me, or just touching me casually, all flirty like.
I dont get him. SO ...
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Cute nickname for my boyfriend.. CAIN?
Posted Sunday March 13 2011, 1:55 pm
I need a cute nickname for my boyfriend, Cain.
but I can't think of any good ones?.. any ideas?
"Cainerbear"?
>Thanks in advance<
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whats the best way to ask
Posted Sunday March 13 2011, 1:54 am
i need sugestions on how to ask girls out. First to start i kind of want to point of view of 18 and under. Im actually re
ally bad with this and want to know how guys go about it.
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does he like me?
Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 9:40 pm
This guy in school told one of my friends that he had a crush on me but apparently he didnt tell her to have her tell me because I only found out because she told one of my other friends and she accidently burted it out to me. So now I know and I want to know if he really likes me because he doesn't act like he does. Like when I try to talk to him he doesnt say much and he doesnt really do things that hint at him liking me. I like him and i really want him to do something to prove that he really does like me and not have to go on what my friend said. What should I do? How will I know if he does like me and is just being shy about it or if he really doesnt like me? 15/f
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My best friends exgirlfriend
Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 12:48 pm
okay so my best friend broke up with this chick awhile back for some unknown reason. And ive been spending time with her geting to know her. And when my relationship fail I started to have feeling for her. But I think my best friend might be rethinking his break up with her. What should I do? I really like this gal. But I dont want to hurt my best friends feelings.
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help?
Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 9:54 am
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We’ve been engaged for 4 months. We’re both 19. All we do if fight (for about 7 months it’s been nothing really but fighting). He always says how he thinks my feelings have dropped for him. He says I’ve changed. He acts like he doesn’t trust me anymore. He always has me swear on our relationship that I’m being honest. We both have bad jealousy, trust, and anger issues. He has broken up with me twice now, once since we got engaged because I talked to a guy. Every time I know it’s because he's mad, but how can I convince him I never lie to him, I’m the same just more open and I haven't lost feelings for him? This is killing our relationship and if things don’t change soon I don’t know if we are going to make it.
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Boyfriend has not taken calls or called me
Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 4:04 am
Hi,
This is my story. I met this hot Italian guy, who had been my next door neighbor for a whole year and I didn't know this. One day, my flat mate invited him over for dinner and since that day, things were on a roll. We hooked up the very first night we met, spend hours talking, watching movies, making out, going out for dinners.
He even met some of my friends and I met his. he had to move to another place because of landlord issues, but is still only about 10 mins away from where I live.
A couple of weeks ago, he mentioned that he's been having a really stressful and rather traumatic time at work. Then two days later, I called him to ask if he'd like to get out for a change...to feel fresh, ...
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Getting over first relationship
Posted Friday March 11 2011, 11:22 pm
I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or...
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what should i do?
Posted Friday March 11 2011, 9:34 pm
I like this guy, he likes me,hes engaged, and im his "sancha" i want to stop wat we have, but yet another part of me wants to keep wat we have going. I dnt kno if i should break away or keep doing wat were doin.
his fiancee lives in another state, hes in the marine corp nd is stationed in my city. he tells me tht she is cheating on him too, because she has tld him, but he hasnt tld her about me. Anyone wanna help me, im confused.
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I have feelings for a friend from high school. Where do I stand?
Posted Friday March 11 2011, 3:31 am
In 10th grade, I had just started dating my high school sweetheart. On a school trip, I noticed this other girl who I had heard about but never met. I knew right away that there was something about her that I had never seen before. I put it out of my mind though, being completely infatuated with my girlfriend at the time. Later that year, during the school musical, I got to know the girl from the trip (for clarity's sake, let's call her Jen). We got to know each other pretty well. I had some small feelings for her, but she was dating someone and I was dating someone. We continued to talk throughout high school. Then I graduated and went to college. She's two years younger than me, so she was still in high school. after the first semester of...
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Close friend, very flirtatious — he has a girlfriend and a rep — help?
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 9:24 pm
I'm 15, sophomore, female. He's 18, second-term senior, and a friend. We've only known each other for a few weeks, but have gotten very close: writing 2000 word, 21-paragraph emails to each other, my Facebook wall is 90% his posts/tags, as are my notifications, and we talk all the time, and often end up separating as a pair to talk more personally. But he has a girlfriend (of five months), who lives in a separate state. He's been very flirty with me, extra-close, but nothing outright; however, all of our friends, and even people who don't know our dynamic tell me he likes me. I really like him, but I recently heard from his ex's friend that he's a womanizing cheater who flirts with anything that moves and hooks up with plenty of random girl...
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Good like/almost love songs
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 9:24 pm
I'm looking for good songs for people in a relationship, but not quite in love yet.
I've never been in love, and believe it could be possible with this one.
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he does... he doesn't..?
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 8:02 pm
I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. Its a very long complicated situation. Basically, i was dating this guy. he never acted like he cared about me though. I was talking to this other guy on facebook, right? Ok. my bf didnt go to my school, and this other guy does. Of course, I started falling for him. I talked to him for five or six hours one night. as my status, i put part of a song, and he liked it and sent me the rest of it through chat. we had been talking about how everything happens for a reason, so as my status i put "sometimes its the smallest decisions that can change your life forever." then he said "do you like my status?" and his status said "....but its the biggest things that can ruin y...
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I'm tired of this
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 7:53 pm
Okay so my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. His parents seem cool and everything but whenever he does something minor, like bad grade or didn't take out the trash they punish him by taking away his net privleges and therefore can't talk to me. IDK why this aggravates me because I guess I should be used to it. I know its the way they raise there kid but I'm frustrated, idk if its at them or him or myself, I just don't know anymore. All and any advice is great appreciates, thank you!
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