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he does... he doesn't..?
I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. Its a very long complicated situation. Basically, i was dating this guy. he never acted like he cared about me though. I was talking to this other guy on facebook, right? Ok. my bf didnt go to my school, and this other guy does. Of course, I started falling for him. I talked to him for five or six hours one night. as my status, i put part of a song, and he liked it and sent me the rest of it through chat. we had been talking about how everything happens for a reason, so as my status i put "sometimes its the smallest decisions that can change your life forever." then he said "do you like my status?" and his status said "....but its the biggest things that can ruin your life forever" I loved it. And he actually seemed into me. Two nights later, I ended up telling him that i was having a problem deciding between my boyfriend and this other guy. he asked who the other guy was, and i told him i wouldn't tell. so, when i told him he was like "ohhhhh." so I told him basically, that if he wasnt into me like that, then i wanted him to just tell me the truth. he told me that he was kinda into me, but having an "in school" girlfriend would distract him. I thought it was just an excuse, right? He told me that he was being completely honest about it though. He also said that he needed to get to know me better as a person before anything would happen. His exact words: "dont get me wrong i mean having a cute face and a hard body is fucking hot, but i need to get to know you better first, you know?" So, that made sense to me. then when i had to go, he said "goodnight cutie(:" The next day in school, he looked at me everytime we saw eachother in the hallway. He does this cute nod/smile thing when he sees me. (hes so cuteee!) He also kept staring at me in lunch, to the point where his friend asked "what are you staring at?" then turned and looked at me. I mean, I thought he liked me. So, after school that day, I got on facebook, and he was online. so was my boyfriend. long story short, my bf broke up with me. i was upset, obviously. so i was still talking to this other guy and i said "i dont know if you're busy or anything, but i need someone to talk to. could we talk? please?" he said nothing. he completely ignored me for the rest of the night. the next day in school, he still looked at me and everything, just like he had always done. on facebook later that day, he ignored me again. then finally, today in school he looked at me maybe... once or twice in lunch, and ignored me in the halls. maybe he was having an off day... maybe not. I know it sounds like hes not that into me, but i told him to just tell me the truth, and he did. He swore it was the truth. I dont know how to confront him about this, if i should at all. I really like him, and at one point, he really liked me. Also, sorry if you cant understand this too easily.. im in a HUGE hurry.
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I think he was being honest, and I think you might be coming across a little too pushy. It sounds to me, like you guys were just in the very beginning of getting to knowing eachother and you were pretty forward it sounds like. He was obviously attracted to you, but I think you kind of freaked him out.
Basically, back off. Don't IM him or text him first, wait for
him to talk to you. If he likes you, he'll make the effort to talk to you & get to know you.
I know what it's like to be in this situation, a matter of fact, I was just last week. I know it sucks, waiting & you just want to ask to see what's going on, but it's just better to wait!
Good luck :)
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