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Sex with a friends ex boyfriend


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 6:34 pm

Hi, i had sex for the first time with my friends ex boyfriend. I am 14 years old, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. (if she would find out about the sex shed probably kill me.) We used protection, but he doesn't seem to love me but i think I'm falling for him. What should i do to get him to like me (BTW he isn't my boyfriend) I am Female and 14 years old. I am from America

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He confuses me....


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 6:02 pm

This is a very complicated story. It's also very long, but I'm going to make it as short as I can. Last Saturday (the 5th) I was talking to this guy on facebook. (I know him personally, I wasn't talking to some random creeper). We talked for about 5-6 hours that night, which is a long time. I was listening to the song "beauty in the breakdown" by The Scene Aesthetic. Heard it? No? Look it up :) Anyways, he liked my status and then he sent me the next part of the song through chat. Then I sent him the next next part. See a pattern? Haha, we sent it back and forth for a few minutes. About two hours later, we were talking about how everything strangely happens for a reason. So, as my status, I put "Sometimes it's the smallest de...

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How do you find a girl's gspot?


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:49 pm

how do you get to a girls g-spot

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Worried over flirting.


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:26 pm

My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We are very open with each other, no secrets, constant trust, and we are always around each other.

He admitted to me once that "I know I am kind of a player, you are the only girl on my mind all the time." meaning he is quite a flirt, he's still faithful to me and there's no one else he thinks about, blah blah blah. Although he has my complete trust, I am insecure. He knows it, too, and we're working on it.

Earlier we were walking together and a girl passed by. He said in a quiet voice, "She's cute." I could hear it and I looked at him but didn't say anything. Who am I to control his eyes? I don't care if he thinks another girl is pretty or c...

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The Worries of My Relationship


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:17 pm

If you haven't seen my previous questions, I am fifteen and dating a wonderful guy. We have been dating for about two months.

Because I have been physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred from my past relationships, I am rather insecure. I get afraid my boyfriend will be upset over a strained subject and close me out, or I will lose him for a stupid reason. Even though I am fully aware he is only here to love me, and he tells me all the time there is nothing to worry about. He is helping me with my insecurities, and I feel like they are fading. Sometimes though I can feel it there, but I am keen to remind myself. I constantly worry he'll hurt me. It makes me so guilty too, because I know he would never ever hurt me purp...

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We had sex 5 times, and now he doesn't call me anymore. I miss him!


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 2:07 pm

A while back I met this guy. He was handsome, funny, outgoing, honest,reliable and everything else I wanted in a man. One problem he had though, committing to a relationship. He was 18 and had never had a girlfriend, been on many dates probably just for sex. First time we ever hung out he told me, "baby whatever you do, don't fall in-love with me". I should have ran away right at that but I didn't. He fascinated me. After seeing each other for a while. I slept with him. Then the next week, he called and wanted to hang again. I slept with him that night as well. I had sex with him a total of about 5 times. But for the past month. He wont answer my calls. He isn't calling me, nothing. It's like he dropped off the planet. I miss him. What should I do? );

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I want to get to know him better but I probably messed it up :/


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 1:14 pm

So basically I hooked up with this guy the first time we hung out. He was someone I've always had my eye on but thought I would never be good enough for. So when he initiated that he wanted to hookup I had no hesitation to do it. I'm friends with alot of people that know him and say he's a really good guy and not a player or anything like that. We've talked only once since then (it's been about a month). But I'm feeling myself actually wanting to date him. I'll see him during spring break but I'm not really the kinda girl to ask a guy out. I know you can't make someone like you, but I don't want to be remembered as easy because i hooked up with him so fast. I don't think he wants anything serious but me neither. I just want to get to know him better. Like a date.. What should i do?

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I dont want to hurt him....


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:37 am

In December I finally got up enough courage to dump my boyfriend of two years. Probably the main reason we were even dating for that long is because he was a manipulative asshole. He was also 8 years older than me, I'm 19. He twisted my life so much that by the end of the relationship I didn't even know who I was. I knew who I had been and wanted to be, which was, IS and always will be: happy. But I was miserable because he managed to make me forget that. Much drama followed though I tried to stay away from him. I've only had contact with him once after that and it was on accident. Anyway, that relationship was my first one, and I think it really messed me up in what I feel/expect/know of and about men.

However, something in...

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Move out or not.


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 2:04 am

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost two months, but we been friends for nearly a year. His parents approve, mines don't. Mines are hardcore Asian parents. Race matter to my parents, perfection matters, but those are like parts of the reason they don't want me to date him. Also age is. I am 19, we both are. They say we are too young and wants me to focus on school. Well I do focus on school, but I also want a boyfriend. but they are like no, either boyfriend or move out. Well I tried to tell them I can do both. But they want us to end our relationship in the end. So since we want to be serious and our relationship is serious, he told me to move in with him and his family. I been considering because of all the restrictions put on us...

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Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 1:45 am

how should i turn my 15 year old
boyfriend on?

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Is the Flame Out?


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 1:26 am

I will try to make this short and sweet. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and half months now. In the beginning he used to tell me how perfect, cute, amazing and incredible I was. Used to text me till he fell asleep and every morning. Now after we have become official he does not tell me all the cute mushy things as much anymore. I am scared he is loosing interest or is this a common occurrence between couples? The only thing that has not changed is when we are in person. He always has his arms around me and tells me he loves me in person and we always have amazing times, but I lost the part where he would tell me his feelings all the time and say cutesy things over text and aim. Advice please!

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Giving a hand job.


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 12:22 am

Well my boyfriend and I will be making out and he's fingered me before and I want to know how to go about giving him a hand job. Like should we be making out at the same time as I give him a hand job? Do the pants have to come off? And like will it be hard to "smoothly slide my hand up and down" or is it not? What are other tips yanno? Can he be fingering me and I be jerking him off at the same time? Haha, sorry this is awkward.

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in love with a boy not his addiction


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 11:10 pm

I'm nineteen and I have met the man I want to marry. I know it sounds kinda crazy but we just really click. The only problem is he is addicted to unprescribed pain killers. We've had times where he'd relapse and we'd break up for like 3 days and he was good again. But this time I feel completely shut down and like I can't deal with him ignoring me this time. I'm so sad because he's living with a bad kid currently cause he got kicked out of home but his parents want him home again. We had a really good date night saturday night but then I brought up the him not calling me and letting me know what's going on[I can't call him cause his phones gone] I told him I was serious about the calling because it made me anxious. I live 7 hours away and I...

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My boyfriend isn't a virgin and I am.


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 10:19 pm

Well, we are both in high school and we recently started dating. We both like each other as much as we both can. Almost love. He recently told me he wasn't a virgin. And that kind of really bothered me. We are talking it out and I think I just need some time to get used to it. Naturally, I am a little bit insecure. But this just didn't settle well in my stomach. I guess I assumed he was a virgin because he's really sweet. And I should not have assumed this in the first place. But the girl he had sex with he says it wasn't good and short-lived. It was a few years ago and she told him he was her second which was a lie and he was actually her fourth. That concerns me because of STD's. Well, I'm not sure why I am reacting so badly to this usual...

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Kissing: How do you know if you are a good kisser?


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 9:44 pm

how do u know if your a good kisser?

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How to tell him I like him.


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 7:28 pm

Hey, I'm only 11 but I really like this guy. I mean, I have never felt this way about a guy before! I don't know what to do! How do I tell him I like him? Please help me, if you can't that's ok. You probably have lots of questions to answer. TTYL, Maybe.

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Should I do it?


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 6:55 pm

I am fifteen. I am currently in a relationship with a great guy. I have known him since August and we spend a lot of time together. He makes me feel so special. He compliments me, accepts me, and treats me right. He is patient with my insecurities and I feel like we could be together for a long time because of our strong chemistry. Our relationship has lasted two months so far, and I could never be happier!

We are physical in our relationship. We kiss a lot but I am uncomfortable with making out so he told me he will wait. He loves to cuddle and hug and he is never pushy but very understanding. Still, I find him often staring at my breasts. I take it as a compliment, but some days I just feel like that's all he cares about. ...

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i like this boy & itld him & now we sorta dont tlk helpp.!! plz


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 5:25 pm

so theres this boy ilike at my skool & way before itld him iliked him we were like iquess berly getinq to know eachh other like when we would see eachh other we woulddd huq & sometimess txt & so ya he had told my friendd tht he thinkss im kute & he would like to get to know me but it doesnt seem like he does:/ so itook ashot & tld him ilikedd him & he said exactly this'haha they had tld me(;<3 ' & know it seems like hes iqnoreinq me ineed help plz://

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I told that special someone I liked him and now he doesn't talk to me.


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 5:14 pm

telling that special someone you like them & after youuu tell them they stop talkinqq to you


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cheating


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 11:28 am

is it cheating when your husband fills out a profile on personals? and is it cheating when he coresponds to personals on craiglist?

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