Well my boyfriend and I will be making out and he's fingered me before and I want to know how to go about giving him a hand job. Like should we be making out at the same time as I give him a hand job? Do the pants have to come off? And like will it be hard to "smoothly slide my hand up and down" or is it not? What are other tips yanno? Can he be fingering me and I be jerking him off at the same time? Haha, sorry this is awkward.
meaning.. there's no formula you have to follow. you can do whatever you want. express yourselves in different ways.
just remember that.
since i'm in a good mood, i'll give you some tips to try out.
you can make out with him while you give him a hand job
you can take his pants off or on. leaving them on is harder because its harder to reach down but you can loosen them and pull them down half way. it isn't hard to "smoothly slide your hand up and down". you can both finger and give hand job at the same time. its not that hard. doesn't require any mental activity at all.
if you've never done it before, heres some things that will make him go crazy
rub him on the head/tip the most. thats the most pleasurable spot for them.
try using different rubbing techniques. so instead of up and down. try rotating left and right. if you can, do both. up and down while twisting left and right. go slow and then fast.
if you feel brave enough, try giving him head if you want. its pretty much the same as hand job but instead of your hands its just with your mouth and tongue. twirl your tongue around the head and lick and suck it.
adviceman49 answered Tuesday March 15 2011, 8:51 am: You may want to look at the following website as well as using a search engine for more information. Just type in; "Giving a boy a good hand job", that's what I did.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.