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stupid boy problems
Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 4:52 am
ok um this guy (just turned 16) and he really likes me(im 15 going on 16) and i dont really like him but i wanna be friends, but to him its either date me or noting else. the reason why i dont is cus we already dated and there was to much drama and the day after we broke up i asked him whats up? and he said fucking me!!! also he pretends to be my one of my friends just so he can talk to me (the friend was a guy who likes me too and hess my ex best friend)..so my question is do you got any ideas on how i can deal with this hes my friends cousin
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my love life is failing...because of me
Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 12:24 am
Every single time I'm in a relationship, I never know what to do. I get so nervous that I barely even talk to whoever I'm going out with. When I break up with them, it's really hard for me to do. My first boyfriend was 2 years older than me and went out with my best friend. We became really good friends, and a month after their break up, we started going out. Before we talked on the phone EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, but then it was like I was completely speechless. And when he would try to get close to me or kiss me I would always turn away, really nervous. I ended up breaking up with him with that as one of the reasons. When I was going out with my second boyfriend, I felt torn because I thought I was still in love with my ex. I think it's...
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do i seem slutty?
Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 12:14 am
I am about to go into high school and for the past few years, I have almost always liked a guy. I have had a couple boyfriends, but I ended up breaking up with them (most of the time because I thought I liked someone else). I am always scared to tell my friends when I like a new guy because I'm afraid that i'll seem slutty (they don't usually have many crushes). I don't dress slutty or anything, but would other people think of me as a slut because they always hear about who I like (my friends have really big mouths)? I can't help liking them, and most of the time, I think it was just minor lust, nothing big. If i do seem slutty, what should I do???
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Boyfriend has a questionable friend
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 10:48 pm
Hey guys,
I just turned 20 and my boyfriend is 19. We broke up 2 days ago and barely talk. My issue is this. He has a girl friend, a hot girl friend. It never bothered me before actually. But over the Fourth of July weekend I was going to spend the night at his house. He kind of got all shady and said he wasn’t positive if I could spend the night anymore. I was fine with that. Until I got on Facebook and that hot girl posted on his wall that she was so excited for the coming up weekend because they were going to hang out now that she was single and they were going to get high and whatever. This bothered me for multiple reasons. Number one: He swears up and down that he doesn’t do drugs anymore. And number 2: He says he’s unsur...
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what does he want from me?!...he has a girlfriend, and i have a boyfriend!
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 10:26 pm
i'm 19/f, and i've been dating my boyfriend joe for 9 months. my boyfriend and i met at work and we still work at the same place together.
i've never had a problem with our relationship until i met nick. he also works with us and just got hired about 2 months ago. i hate to admit this, but.. for the past month, i've been having feelings for this new guy nick, even though i've been dating joe the whole time.
ever since i met nick, i've been really confused about my relationship with joe. i've seriously considered breaking up with him and i almost did, but i reconsidered at the last minute. i decided that i want to keep dating joe because i still have feelings for him and i love spending time with him...but at th...
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Why do I want to let go of the best thing that has happened to me
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 7:49 pm
21 female
I've known this guy whose 18 for a long time. I haven't always been close with him. Just recently we've started "talking"
But now it freaks me out. I'm the kind of girl that when someone likes you, you run away. But he treats me sooo good. I still live with my parents but they went out of town last weekend and so he came and stayed with me because I don't like being alone. Well he made the bed, he did the dishes and took out the trash even when I told him not to. He bought me dinner. He doesn't try to hook up with me, he knows that's not what I want. He respects me. He's everything a girl could ever want.
But why is it that I am losing feelings for him now? Is he too nice to m...
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Can we use a catholic church wedding venue if we aren't catholic?
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 4:00 pm
i've always wanted to get married in a beautiful cathedral. i found a great church, but i'm not catholic and neither is my fiance. my question is, are we allowed to get married in the catholic church anyway? i don't have to use the priest there, i can use my own pastor if that's the case. i just pretty much want to rent out the cathedral for the day, i'm not looking to have a sacramental catholic wedding. thanks!
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Texting to Relationship
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 11:46 am
There is a guy who accidentally texted me as a wrong number. I told him it was wrong, but he continued texting me on multiple occasions, knowing I was someone he didn't know. We had some nice conversations and flirted a bit. He lives about three hours away from me and is 16. He wants to come visit me, but he can't drive. I'm 17 and can drive, but not that far - my parents wouldn't let me. I wouldn't want to either because I don't really know him. One day he got very intense with the flirting and asked if he were to ask me out what I would say. I told him maybe, clearly stressing that we don't each other and would have to get to know each other in order for me to date him. He then asked that if we dated if we would make out a lot. This kind ...
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Feeling of sadness??
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 11:21 am
18/f
Last night I felt really sad. I'm not sure what it was... I wasn't sure if it's the fact that I knew I was going to miss my boyfriend when he goes off to vacation, and I'm just hoping nothing will happen. Or if it's stress from me trying to make it work. If I was tired. Sad that I'm not exactly "satisfied" from this relationship due to how he treats me... Or because of school? Yesterday night I was with him, and things went pretty well. And I left feeling sad. I was worried about him because he was stressed out about many things and he didn't wanna talk about it. Maybe I was just feeling sad because he's stressed out, he didn't seem as affectionate as he was before? I'm not sure.
But it's the fee...
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Is it really just sex?
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 5:03 am
Im a 26yr old female....If you just have a sexual relationship with a guy...do you hang out, watch movies with the kids, cuddle, have hour long conversations about work, family, etc before you have sex....cuddle afterwards and stay until morning? If you do all that is it really just sex or is it definitely more to the relationship?
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Should I let him go?
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 4:41 am
26yr old female...involved for 6 months. Hes getting a divorce and my fiance passed away we dont want a relationship now. Ive known him forever. Lately hes been distant but every time I say we should stop talking he says he loves me, doesnt want to let me go and we should see where we end up...i know he cares about me but hes talking to 2 other girls and our relationship isnt realy progressing he has trust issues. I really care about him, when were together it great. Should I be patient or just let him go?
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What should i do next?
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 1:39 am
My friend and I like eachother a little bit. We started texting two days ago. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. We exchanged numbers. And everyday after that we texted eachother. He has this girlfriend. While dating her, he has been flirting with me. He told me if things dont work out with his girlfriend he will date me. He also said i was cool and awesome. My bestfriend says he is lying about his girlfriend. We called him up on 3-way. I found out he likes to lie about topics. First he said it has been a month they were together, then later on he said it has been a year.I dont know whether to believe he likes me. Or to beleive him and whatever he says.Or if his girlfriend is real. When i get back to school, i would have to deal w...
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Broken Heart
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 1:20 am
To put it simply, I think I have a little bit of a broken heart. I don't want to talk about everything that happened, and I'm not really angry, I don't feel like it would be right to be angry. I'm just kind of disappointed in this person and I wish it could have been so much more. I just need advice of any sort. Thank you guys
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how should I do this?
Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 12:56 am
One of my guy friends I like and he likes me and we have wanted to hangout for a while and his and my friend texted me asking if I wanted to go to the movies with them. I couldn't go when they were cause I was busy but I really wanted too. I'm a little nerveous to ask my mom, cause shes a little protective, I guess? How do I ask her without getting mad? And when we hangout I'll probably wanna kiss him. Is that okay? If I make the first move, not that I would, but if I did, how would I? Please help me with this. I am a 13 year old girl. Call me dani. :)
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being fingered and then getting funny feeling down there and strong odor
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 11:30 pm
Let me start off by being brief, I'm a girl and I will be sixteen in a few months, so I will be a sophmore. There is this guy who is going to be a senoir at my school, and we hungout last night. I've only done a few things like giving head or being fingered with two guys; close boyfriends. We made out, and he ended up fingering me. Lately, it feels weird to pee and it has a very strong scent...what could be wrong?!
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i got kissed and drama started because of it
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 9:22 pm
well about 3 weeks ago my friends held me down so this guy could kiss me i said no because i liked some one already and he kissed me anyways he told my friends he really liked me but then later he told one of them that it was because he liked me and because he wanted to get back at his ex and to top it off the guy i like saw and wont talk to me and got a girlfriend but he said he was going to ask me out but he saw me and this guy kissing and thaT ...... was my first kiss :(
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I feel weird being attracted to him... but I am.
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 6:15 pm
This thirteen year old kid who lives across the street is in love with me. I am sixteen. I think he is adorable and he looks much older than he really is but I think it is screwed up that I am attracted to him. I feel like such a creep.
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Fiance vs Best Friend
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 4:24 pm
okay, so I just got engaged a few months ago to my boyfriend of now 7 years. A few days before we got engaged, Mike (my fiance) was on the road because of his job and I decided to surprise him for Valentine's day. I show up and find him passed out and half naked in bed at the hotel with some other half naked woman at the door. I find out he was drunk and never actually did anything.but after I found out and we talked about it, all was fine. Recently my best guy friend, Randy, told me that he has strong feels for me. He's always around when I need somebody and Mike is on the road and doesn't call much. Mike found out about Randy and I spending a lot of time together and got jealous. He then told me to choose between them. I got upset and wal...
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He's leaving for vacation so I'm paranoid.
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 4:07 pm
18/f
My boyfriend is leaving for vacation, and because of that... My older sister told me to prepare for the worst. She said that a majority of the people she knows either cheated when they're on vacation, or the person at home ends up with someone else/cheats on someone else, she has experienced it herself too. She said that she's not saying the same thing will happen to us, but she just told me to prepare for the worst. I'm positive that it's not going to happen with me, because I already miss him when I don't see him for a day... But possibly 1 and a half weeks to 3 weeks?? Without seeing him and talking to him is really hard. So all that can happen, is me missing him more.
I tried defending him, but the mor...
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relationship with a guy in a different state?!
Posted Monday July 18 2011, 3:53 pm
ok well im 13 and i live in arizona (girl)
im dating my best friends cousin ok and hes 14 he lives in utah but rite now hes with his dad traveling until school starts and his dad doesnt like him dating yet.......and i dont what to do cus i cant talk to him for like a whole month and im not really sure if its a relationship so im not sure if im aloud to date and stuff.....
(i know that he loves me cus my friend told me and she wouldnt lie bout that cus she doesnt even like us dating)
thank ya -angie
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