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Is it really just sex?
Im a 26yr old female....If you just have a sexual relationship with a guy...do you hang out, watch movies with the kids, cuddle, have hour long conversations about work, family, etc before you have sex....cuddle afterwards and stay until morning? If you do all that is it really just sex or is it definitely more to the relationship?
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If you have to ask, then it is just sex. I admire your commitment to not letting a guy hang around the kids until you are sure about his role in your life. Good for you! If it makes you feel better, as him point blank if he considers this a committed relationship. But be prepared for an answer you may not like. If he thinks of you as his girlfriend he'll be able to answer that question quite easily. If he dances around it, that's not good. Personally I think a sexual relationship is a bad idea, because we are designed to bond to the people we have sex with. When we lack committment, every time that person leaves its like ripping off a bandaid. Soon some skin is gonna come off with that. You need to decide what is healthy and right for you, but you definitely deserve to know where you stand with this guy, so ask. Good luck.
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Depends
Does this guy want to be with you and your children? Does he put the time and effort into doing things with you and getting to know you? How involved is he in you and your children's life?
If someone is all about sex, They would be focused on getting in your pants. Some may even do and say whatever it takes too get laid.....It's just the way it goes sometimes. If you feel that he isn't the right person for you then you shouldn't be with him, A guy that wants to be with you and your children will take the time to be apart of your lives by participating in family functions and getting to know more about you. That's a relationship
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