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What should i do next?
My friend and I like eachother a little bit. We started texting two days ago. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. We exchanged numbers. And everyday after that we texted eachother. He has this girlfriend. While dating her, he has been flirting with me. He told me if things dont work out with his girlfriend he will date me. He also said i was cool and awesome. My bestfriend says he is lying about his girlfriend. We called him up on 3-way. I found out he likes to lie about topics. First he said it has been a month they were together, then later on he said it has been a year.I dont know whether to believe he likes me. Or to beleive him and whatever he says.Or if his girlfriend is real. When i get back to school, i would have to deal with all of this. I dont know what to do next?
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Dont waste your time. He lies and you can never trust him. Not only that but if he does have a girlfriend that makes him a player. Dating her while flirting with you. When he is with you he will do the same date you and someone else. You dont want that. Drop the guy like a bad habit and move on to someone who will treat you like a princess just like you deserve
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Forget about him. He's not worth all this confusion. Yes, you can still be friends with him, but keep it completely casual. The occasional flirting is fine, as long as it isn't too misleading to him. Try to make it clear to him that there will not be anything between you two so it's clear that you are just friends.
If he's lying to you now about his girlfriend, he'll lie if you two were ever in a relationship. To me, it seems he is not to be trusted. If you can't trust someone, don't date them!
The whole "if things don't work out with his girlfriend" stuff is crap. Don't ever settle for being someone's second choice, and chances are he may not even mean it.
Really, just forget about this guy in any romantic way. Friendship is great - especially with someone of the opposite gender because they help show things from a different view - so keep him in mind as a friend.
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oh girl just leave him alone.. he is not worth all of this. If you have to "investigate" to see if he's telling the truth, then he is definitely not worth it.
let me ask you this.. you said he has been flirting with you while he has a girlfriend. Well what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you too?? What if you 2 were dating and how do you know he wouldn't start flirting with another girl behind your back? He's done it once, who knows how many times he will do it again..
Plus he's lying about all this stuff and sending mixed signals to you.. I don't see how anybody could trust him. I wouldn't trust him if I were you.
He sounds like a guy who just likes playing around with girls. He's leading you on and you can't even see that.. Stop talking to him before you get seriously hurt. I've had plenty guy experience and I know guys like these.... they don't care about your feelings. He doesn't care about his girlfriends feelings because he's flirting with you behind her back!! IF you 2 dated, he wouldn't care about your feelings either because he would probably just flirt with more girls.
Ignore him and find guys who are worth your time :)
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