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how should I do this?
One of my guy friends I like and he likes me and we have wanted to hangout for a while and his and my friend texted me asking if I wanted to go to the movies with them. I couldn't go when they were cause I was busy but I really wanted too. I'm a little nerveous to ask my mom, cause shes a little protective, I guess? How do I ask her without getting mad? And when we hangout I'll probably wanna kiss him. Is that okay? If I make the first move, not that I would, but if I did, how would I? Please help me with this. I am a 13 year old girl. Call me dani. :)
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hey dani
You shouldn't be scared to ask your mom for anything. But i do know how you feel. I was the same way. The first time a guy asked me out, I was soo nervous to tell my parents. But you just have to get through with it once, and then after that it gets easier :)
Just ask your mom if you can go to the movies with some of your friends. If she starts questioning you like "who are you going with", then name off their names. If she gets curious because there are guys, just say they are just friends and you want to hang out with them. If she still is uncomfortable with the situation, ask her if it would be better if you invited a girl friend of yours.
And yes haha it is okay if you make the first move. It will surprise him and make you look confident and strong :) which guys love! If you go to the movies with him, sit next to him and start having a conversation with him. Laugh a little and touch his arm. Body position is an important thing to remember. Instead of folding your arms across your chest (which is a sign or insecurity) let your arms rest on the armrest and close to his body. That shows that you want to be closer to him.
One trick that always works is taking his hand and put your hand against his, pretend like you're looking at whose hand is bigger. Then just collapse your fingers around his and hold his hand :)
The best way to make a move is turn towards him and talk to him. Pretend like you have a secret to tell him and lean in and whisper something in his ear :) Then when you pull away from his ear, slowly lean in and plant one on him! :) Its up to you if you want to start slow and just kiss him on the cheek, or if you want to be brave, kiss him on the lips.
If its your guys' first kiss, i would suggest just a little peck. And then afterwards, smile so he knows you liked it. Then after that, just see where the situation goes. If he likes it too, he might kiss you some more. and its okay if you guys take a break from kissing and then kiss some more later. Its not a bad thing. It just probably means he doesn't want to move too fast.
Good luck and inbox me if you have more questions! I would love to hear how everything goes :)
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