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Not saying goodbye: I am moving away, and he just turned his back on me?
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 8:50 pm
i had to go away from the country so the guy who i was with he refuse to say goodbye to me......he just turn his back and stop talking to me....and i wonder why???
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Does he like me or just being nice? What do I do next?
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 6:59 pm
I met this guy at work a few weeks ago. I really like him. I first met him when i was sent to his area for a day because they were short staff. I didn't know what to do so he worked with me and showed me what to do. As I working he complimented me saying "nice". Where we were working at the day was very hot so he offered me a cup so I could get something to drink. He was very nice and helpful towards me. Then another day I saw him outside of work and he kept looking over at me but didn't say nothing. Do you think he likes me? I want to talk to him again but idk how to go about it what should I do?
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How can I get over commitment issues?
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 6:44 pm
I have major commitment issues when it comes to a relationship. I like him I do but I always try and find something wrong with him. HELP!
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nice guys finish last: Why do girls lie? They say they want a nice guy, then chase after every asshole they see?
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 5:00 pm
i have now discovered that even though girls say they want genuinely nice guys they chase after assholes, who do nothing but treat them badly. but why do girls still do it.
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Should I just give up?
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 3:10 am
So I'm going to be 17 in 3 days and I've only been asked out three times and i've only had 1 boyfriend. Nobody asked me to prom last year. In fact I've never been asked to any dance or party.
People tell me i'm really pretty but I feel like the ugliest troll in the entire world.
I have to go back to school soon for my senior year and I start to cry even thinking about it because I know I'm going to be surrounded by over 1,000 gorgeous rich girls that make me look like a pile of trash.
I think everybody looks down at me because I'm short for my age and so they see me as a little kid (I'm 5ft exactly). Like I'll try to talk to the popular preppy girls and they'll just roll their eyes at me.
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Any other good books?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 11:02 pm
are there any other good books that are a good love story like "dear john" or "The Last Song"?
thanks
kaaitlyn
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i don't want to seem like a hoe.
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 11:00 pm
Okay i know this is going to sound bad but it happens. Ok i liked this dude but he didst know about it or me really so we decided to hang out wit some close friends and we had sex! I wanted to but after i didn't hear from him so i kind of started to feel bad. I continue to hang with his friends and i started liking one of them and this time he likes me back but im afraid to talk to him like that because i don't want to seem like a hoe. I don't know if the friend knows but i also don't know what to do and this guy is really cool. Ugh i messed up bad
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Me and my girlfriend :) (im a girl)
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 10:10 pm
Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now and we both want a fresh start somewhere new. We want to move to somewhere pretty cheap but nice too like costa rica or hawaii or brazil. somewhere warm with a beach. I was just wondering if anyone has any suggestions for people moving to a brand new place with no job or living situation set up yet? thank you so much!
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he changed an i dont know wat to do
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 8:14 pm
im katie an im 15.. an i was in a relationship with a gud man he was funny, talented cud sing an was a gentleman ....an but he has a lot of flaws tho he has ben to jail quite alot ... we last seen each other a month ago an den he went to jail .. but be fore that i had kinda did something bhad an lied about ma age i told him i was one year older then wat i really was an then he said maybe we shud take this slow an i said ohk an after tht like to days later he went to jail an i never herd from him an den wen he got out of jail a week ago he text me like im out ma an i said im glad an i hope yu stay out an den i asked him if we was still together an he said nawh ma mebah we tlked bout tht .. i said no.... he said we needto put in time befor...
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why does he keep getting these dreams??
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 8:08 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. I kinda screwed it up in the beginning by involving another guy. Its complicated and not going in depth about it. Anyways, things are a lot better now :) I'm finally beginning to feel like there is nothing to worry about. except this. He's been having these bad dreams a lot lately. Dreams about me cheating on him etc. I told him they were just bad dreams and that I would never ever do that to him. He believes me but he still has these dreams. He's getting really paranoid about them and i'm scared he will let these dreams get to him and break up with me. I'm looking at buying him a dream catcher to hopefully help get rid of the bad dreams. I've tried reassuring him that I'm insanely in love...
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played twice. he never TOTALLY cheats... just mostly
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 5:25 pm
theres this guy.. ha, typical right? well he told me he was going to ask me out but he wanted it to be perfect... he then flirted with my bestfriend. They were staying stuff like they wanted to go somewhere romanticc and that shit. Well i confronted him and he was so upset and we made up and all and everything was good... so i had my other bestfriend hit on him after a little bit he starting flirting back.. i KNOW this is horrible but i still like him and he still likes me and i dont know what to do.. i know if i became his girlfriend he'd be faithful (he never TOTALLY cheats)but i still dont trust him.
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Why do older guys hit on me but not guys my age?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 4:02 pm
I'm 17 and I get guys in their early to mid twenties hitting on me, but when I'm in school most guys just want to be my friend. I've had boyfriends but none lasted very long. There's this one guy that's been hitting on me since I was in middle school, he chased me down the street one time just to ask me how old I was and where did I live. He's friends with my brother and every time he comes to my house hes either staring at me or trying to flirt with me and I don't like him. He's 24 yrs old and he's been hitting on me since I was like 12. I was having a conversation with this one guy and he was 18 and I told him I was 17, he reacted with a holy sh*t. I don't dress slutty or wear make up and I don't understand why older guys hit on m...
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Dreaming about someone else
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 1:42 pm
19/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years and haven't had many problems at all. But just a few days ago, we got into an argument about how I feel he doesn't really care for me the same anymore.
That night, I had a dream that we were still dating, but he had taken me to the mall so I could see an old friend. In my dream I was sad and had really been missing him, so I went up and gave him a big hug and we started talking and it was wonderful, and then I woke up.
Then yesterday night, I was with my boyfriend and we started to kiss a little, and then he told me to leave. It made me really mad. When I got home I didn't even talk to him.
But then when I fell asleep I h...
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should i stay or should i go?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 1:19 am
Hi, i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months now, and we're very serious. We've talked about marriage and living together forever, and i've never been so sure about being with someone. We may be young but i know for a fact that i could be with him forever.
Anyways, my problem is, my two worst enemies are both his most obsessive ex girlfriends. multiple times have i caught him still talking/flirting with other girls including them, but also not on just his part, they're also the ones who engage. it's been months since something like this has happened, but recently when i was away he was at a party and one of the girls happened to be there. rumors started to spread and there was a bunch of he said she said. but now i k...
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Never Been Kissed
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 12:26 am
I'm 18/F
I've never been kissed, never been on a date, and have never been in a relationship.
Is that normal? I feel like i'm not good enough for anyone to love me, or even like me...
I mean... I've never really put myself out there, or flirted or anything, but no one's ever made an effort for me either.
I'm just kinda freaking out over this.
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Everything is great, but why do I feel this way?
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 7:14 pm
18/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for exactly 1 year. He's absolutely AMAZING!!!! we are amazing :) We had a few fights in the past, but everything is great now. Its finally feeling like everything is great between us. But why I do get this feeling that something bad could happen?? I'm so in love with him but at the same time I'm so scared something bad will happen, like him falling for another girl. I trust him so much and i know he wouldn't do that, but I still get that scared feeling.. I really want to be with him for as long as possible. I'm just scared to lose him.. What should I do? I've talked to him about this and he reassures me that nothing bad will happen. I feel good when he says it, but then sometimes rand...
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Getting to the point where I am gettng Lost
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 10:25 am
I am pretty much Fill out what I am feeling. I am try my best for anyone try to understand frist I let you know I do have grammer problem so try to bail with me. if you couldn't understand I can do like email thing and thing I know Advicenators don't want real long messages... so anybody that can be able read some long messages not just long just where it be to long on here. so My advice be on about Religon.. i have a boyfreind and well we have different beliefts and there more but hard to me to explaine that why i thought someone willing really try understasnd read longer messages.. comment me and i can inbox you my long needy advice...
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i like him and so does she......he likes me, not her.
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 6:31 am
13/F
ok so there is this guy,lets call him D and i have a friend, lets call her N.
D is one of my really close friends and so is N, i hang out with D every lunch and recess at school and know him really well, i only hang out with guys at lunch and recess but sometimes N comes 2.
i tell D everything along with N and other close friends, lets call them B,J,f, their are both male and E who is female and others that dont matter in this need of advice.
so one Saturday E came 2 my place for a sleepover and we both got really hyper at about 9pm and i called B and what i didn't know was D and J was at B's house for the night 2. and i said some really embarrassing things such as i really like D and i thought he ha...
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I need all the advice i can get.
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 5:56 am
long story short, my boyfriend messed up with me , and we broke up, he came back and wanted a second try and worked hard for it, and i told him i need some time to trust him and all that stuff, so im starting to give into him and everything and then he starts talking about how he wants to be with me but he wants to give it time cause hes going to college and all his friends are failing and hes so scared that he isnt as smart as the and he doesnt wanna go down the same road and a relationship is too much for him to handle and that he feels like hes not gonna show me much attention but we can still love eachother and be eachothers, but not in a relationsip but he thinks its a major responsibility cause he has to take care of me and all that, ...
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I'm really into my gay guyfriend O:
Posted Monday August 8 2011, 11:50 pm
i just met Nico this summer at a theater academy and from the first time i saw him, i thought he was cute :) then when we actually started talking and getting to know each other more, we became like, best friends. Even though thats true, i also noticed from the beginning that he could be gay. Two weeks after meeting him, he tells me and a few other friends about his coming out story, and i was fine with it, i didnt intend to actually like him more than a friend. it wasnt til after he told me about a girl that recently really liked him, and pretty much asked him to "switch sides" for her, that i found myself liking him as well. I mean, how cant i when we're always holding hands, touching each other, and talking about flirty, sexual...
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