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I need all the advice i can get.
long story short, my boyfriend messed up with me , and we broke up, he came back and wanted a second try and worked hard for it, and i told him i need some time to trust him and all that stuff, so im starting to give into him and everything and then he starts talking about how he wants to be with me but he wants to give it time cause hes going to college and all his friends are failing and hes so scared that he isnt as smart as the and he doesnt wanna go down the same road and a relationship is too much for him to handle and that he feels like hes not gonna show me much attention but we can still love eachother and be eachothers, but not in a relationsip but he thinks its a major responsibility cause he has to take care of me and all that, i dont know you guys.. whats going on? hes always online for me, talking to me all the time, telling me how much he loves me, im being so honest, hes not that kind of player guy, that plays around and does all that bullcrap, hes a man, and im not saying that because im inlove with him im saying this cause i know him, but is it UNDERSTANDABLE, that he said that ? or what do i do please help. thank you.
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yeah its understandable. I went through a phase in my life when I liked a guy and wanted to be with him, but I had bigger priorities to focus on like school and sports. It sounds like he really does love you. Otherwise, he wouldn't have wasted his time trying to get you back and having a second chance. If he didn't love you, he would have given up by now. Its understandable that he is worried about school. If you really love him, I'd give him that second chance and then tell him that you guys don't have to be so serious right away. You guys can still go out, but settle for a less serious relationship. Tell him you can help him out like helping him relax outside of school and maybe even helping him out with school.
I'm sure that if you 2 were mean't to be.. then everything will figure itself out :) Good luck and inbox me if you have more questions!
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Sounds like he wants to keep a hold you while hes going through this confusing time. He doesn't seem to know what he wants and he trying to figure that out. I will admit that having a relationship while preparing or attending college is a lot of work. Especially if you are in a new place and don't really know alot of people. He wants to be able to have someone he trusts completely to talk to. I can understand why he needs time to adjust then take on a relationship. I can the sense that he isn't playing you, but he just needs some time to juggle everything that is being thrown his way. I would stick with him, stand by side, and just wait patiently for him. If he were just about messing with your head, he wouldn't go to such lengths to talk to you. He would get what he needed and stop talking to you. The fact that he keeps engaging in conversations is definitely a plus in your favor. He relies and trusts you with everything.
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