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i like him and so does she......he likes me, not her.
13/F
ok so there is this guy,lets call him D and i have a friend, lets call her N.
D is one of my really close friends and so is N, i hang out with D every lunch and recess at school and know him really well, i only hang out with guys at lunch and recess but sometimes N comes 2.
i tell D everything along with N and other close friends, lets call them B,J,f, their are both male and E who is female and others that dont matter in this need of advice.
so one Saturday E came 2 my place for a sleepover and we both got really hyper at about 9pm and i called B and what i didn't know was D and J was at B's house for the night 2. and i said some really embarrassing things such as i really like D and i thought he had the cutest laugh/smile and some other really embarrassing things then B said D liked me and if D would ever ask me out, would i say yes and i said yes so B invited me to the movies with D and J and F on Sunday so i said yes straight away and wen i saw my mum i asked her if i could go and she said she would think bout it and the next morning she said no because she hasn't ever met the guys and would like them 2 come over before i go places with them :( so i texted B saying i couldn't come because i was going to the city with my family because i was 2 embarrassed to say mum didn't let me because she didn't know them.
The next day at school,we were doing maths and J said D was sad i bailed, and it was sorta awkward between me and D but the next day it was fine between us and i told N this and she likes him 2 and way before i ever told he i liked D she waz like if one of her friends would ever like D they would be stealign him and the day i told her about everything she was sorta sad.
So i am inviting all the guys 2 my place so we can hang with my mum letting me.
I asked if who D liked and he said me and i really wanna go out with D but i dont want to hurt N.
they are both my good friends.
PLZ HEPL!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. please dont say stuff like chicks before dicks because D is important to me in a friendship way 2 and we are both really close friends so it wouldn't be stuff like chicks before dicks because D is my really close friend as well as N.
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Never choose a guy(d) over a bestfriend(n). This guy may seem like them best thing on earth and your whole world right now but trust me you'll meet other people. Dating this guy would show what kind of a person you are but if you want to choose him over her then go on ahead.Beware of the consequences like a broken friendship. I think both of you should forget about this guy. There are PLENTY of fish in the sea:)
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It really comes down to whose relationship is more important to you. If you turned down the guy because of your best friend, you friend will be happy and both you and the guy will be miserable. If you accept to date this guy, you will be happy and so will he. The only one who will be unhappy will be your best friend. If she is truly your best friend, she will support your relationship whether she likes the guy or not. You, however, have to make it clear that you are what he truly wants. And maybe you could find her someone else so you guys can do a double dating thing. I think she is mostly afraid that if you guys start dating, she will be the third wheel and not really have anyone. If you find someone for her to date also, she might get over the idea a lot more quickly.
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