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How can I get over commitment issues?
I have major commitment issues when it comes to a relationship. I like him I do but I always try and find something wrong with him. HELP!
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I wouldn't say that you had a bad past but I think it's because you want the perfect guy. And lacking in something can lead to potential emotional damage somewhere down the line. I am like that too. Some of the most weirdest things can turn me off from a guy I like that I wouldn't mind in someone else. Whatever you do, don't ever make it a big deal infront of him.
Remember, no guy can be ideally perfect. Relationships are consisted of people with flaws but it's not something you hear about often because people don't talk about it because they've learned to overcome it.
Just try to keep a positive mind about it. And make sure you're keeping positive for the right reasons. :)
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Well, did you ever think about why you're trying to find something wrong with him? Was there anything that happened in the past that made you felt bad and hurt or depressed? Don't worry. It will be okay, just try not to look that much deep into him. Focus on what you have now, and not try to look for anything wrong, because that could cause even more problems. Trust him, know that you are the only one for him and don't think about anything else, just focus on what you both have right now. :)
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