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baby daddy problem


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 3:01 pm

well i met this guy a few months back through a friend. and started living with him cause i had no where else to go. he was a man whore, meaning he hooked up with 3-4 girls at a time, but i didn't intend to stay long so it didn't bother me. a couple months later i found out i was pregnant, but beore i could leave his house his friends told him. he decided he wanted to keep it. we moved states so he wouldn't be tempted to cheat and for the first few months it was fine. i'm currently 6 1/2 months pregnant and lately he has always been online talking to other girls. i don't have any family around, so i'm really scared that if he cheats i couldn't do anything. i've asked him about it, and he says he isn't doing anyything wrong. but he's always ...

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Losing my virginity


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 9:31 am


Okay this question may sound awkward but I lost my virginity 3 days ago and I just started bleeding. This is also my time of month could this be my menstrual cycle starting or from my "cherry" being popped? Or is it even a possibility of it being both? What I'm hearing is that you start a little spotting right after your first time but I didn't. Any advice would really be appreciated. Thank-you for you time:)

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How to I get my Guy to open up more?


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 5:15 am

I am 19/f and my bf is 17. I graduated high school this past year and had no choice but to move (another long story) and so we are in a long-distance relationship. We are both very faithful and much in love but I have been Having this problem lately... He has a crappy phone so I can't talk to him ear to ear on the phone, all we can do is text. Well when he finally texts me we don't talk much. I try extremely hard to carry conversations with him but the majority of his responses are yea, idk, what, why?, lol, or smiley face. It's like he doesn't know what to talk to me about and I have brought up the subject and we will have a understanding and he will change for maybe a day or two but then just goes back to texting me one worded messages. I...

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Is this something that will come with time or should I end the relationship?


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 3:36 am

Hello!
This is going to be difficult to express in text but I have been in a relationship for the first time in 4 years. I am very excited and I think I am ready but have felt really unsure of things the past two weeks. My relationship began unfortunately as a hook up. After about two months of a nearly only physical relationship I told the girl I had developed feelings for her and requested we started a committed relationship. After a week of grappling with the concept she obliged.
We have now been in an exclusive relationship for around 2 months. One of my biggest issues is I feel like I am the only one who initiates conversation, intimacy, etc. I was originally alright with this because I thought it was expected for the m...

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Is the age difference bad even if we're not having sex?


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 2:30 am

So there's this guy that is a good friend and we're really close. Some people have told me that the age difference wasn't good. We kinda had a thing going on for awhile. Just making out and touching kind of stuff. I'm not having sex. Anyways, I'm 17 and he's 19. In March he'll be 20. So it's like a 2 1/2 year difference. We're waiting till I'm out of high school to get more serious but I was wondering if the age difference is bad even if we're not having sex.

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I feel so much lesser than her and I've become completely lost.


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 1:55 am

This is going to be a long story, and I can't believe how I got to this point, but I feel like I have a huge metal problem on my hands.

I started dating my boyfriend last year. He was my first for everything of course, i lost my virginity to him, I opened up to him, told him I loved him. We're still dating to this day;

I remember myself last year, I was happy, random, confident, funny, always making people smile, I was the one giving everyone advice, inspiring everyone. I'm sure he was attracted to my personality,because I felt comfortable with myself.

I'm looking at myself and am finding that I've become completely lost, and on this website asking for some kind of help.

When we fi...

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I Just Don't Know Anymore... I’m just going to hurt him more if I stay.


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 11:11 pm

f,15
So for the people reading this you're in for a rollercoaster and if you would give advice I'd greatly appreciate it. Okay so here is my story… I’ve been going out with this guy for almost 7 months now and things have been great and all but these past few days it’s been, I don’t know just different or wrong. I know it’s me it has to because he really hasn’t done anything wrong. I guess if forgot to mention he’s my first boyfriend but I really don’t think that has anything to do with this. So in these past few days I’ve even had the thoughts of ending the relationship because I feel like I don’t want it anymore and I’m just going to hurt him more if I stay. My life isn’t the same anymore I don’t really ha...

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Should this happen after having sex?


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 10:35 pm

I am a 20 year old female and I have been sexually inactive for almost a year now. I just recently had sex the other day and I was very sore for a couple days, which I expected, but then I had sex a couple days later (with the same person) and it hurt. I figured it was because I was still sore, but when I touched my vagina, it felt like it was swollen and it hurt really bad. Also my (vaginal) lips felt very raw and itchy. This is really disgusting me and I don't know what is wrong. Can someone help me please!!!

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I don't get why he deleted and blocked me?


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 6:49 pm

So my best guy friend recently got a gf. Ill start from the begining. My bestfriend got us to like eachother....a lot. I soon fell for him, and I think he did for me too. We Did do things (I.e. make-out) and soon after we were telling eachother that we loved eachother. He was the first one to say I love you too me also. So lately I asked him out..he said "I would. Say yes, but i might be going to jail, and I don't want a gf if I go to jail" I said "ok" kissed him, and he walked me home. I knew he also liked another girl along with me. So I'm guessing that either he asked her out, or she asked him..he apparently said yes. He decided to tell me over facebook....here i the conversation. Him:hey, I hve some bad news, me:ok w...

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Me and my partner safe?


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 4:43 pm

I'm 15 and male, my partner is 15 and female. We are both virgins. Is it impossible for us to contract STD's?

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what to get my bf for xmas


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 3:51 pm

okay so im 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been dating for a month and i dont know what to get him for Christmas and how to give it to him to please help!

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Relationships & Moving


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 3:38 pm

I'm A 14 Year Old Girl I've Known My Boyfriend( He's 15) For Almost 2 Years Now And We've Been Dating For 8months On And Off We Are Currently Together But The Place I'm Living Is Temporary . He Knows That But Whenever I Bring Up The Fact That I'm Moving Soon He Gets Either Mad Or Sad . We Go To The Same High School But If I Move I'll Be In A Whole New District . I Don't Know If We Should Stay Together When I Move Or Break Up Because Of The Distance .. What Do You Alll Think I Should Do ?

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Instead of being remorseful she became angry and has blamed me for her affair. I don't know how to pick up the pieces.


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 5:12 am

I am a 45 tear old engineer who has been with the same girl since I was 16. I just found out she has been having a long term graphic affair with a co-worker. She got a new cell phone and I was going to use her old one. She left 700 texts on the phone and I am heart broken. I don't want to live anymore. It is as my entire life has been a lie. Instead of being remorseful she became angry and has blamed me for her affair. I don't know how to pick up the pieces.

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pain when horny???


Posted Tuesday November 29 2011, 1:41 am

I am a 31 year old female, about 12 years ago i was diagnosed with a sexual disorder ( cant remember the name of it) that basically was the female equivalent of blue balls, but it would not go away through masturbation i had to actually have sex with a man something about the combination of his hormones mixing with mine. About a year ago all that stopped ( i thought for good) but this week it has kind of come back with a vengeance. is this really normal or could it be that disorder again? masturbation is only making it way worse and i am getting off pretty good but 5 mins later seems like it is worse than before. please help, if you have any suggestions. Oh and before it gets said i do have a boyfriend, he works and is gone 4 days a week th...

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how to turn my 15 year old boyfriend on so he will kiss me


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 10:32 pm

how to turn my 15 year old boyfriend on so he will kiss me

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My boyfriends parents want another girl for him:(


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 6:11 pm

My boyfriends parents like this other girl for him because his parents know her since she was little. And everytime i see him he tries to ignore me infront of his parents it feels like were complete strangers when we talk infront of his parent and his dad is always mean mugging me what should i do?

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My boyfriend is going to call me? He's not sure about me after I dumped him, but now I want him back!


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 6:01 pm

I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he's not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship.

He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I'm the one who spend his lifetime together when he's seeing me. I couldn't understand why he changed his mind and said that he needs time to think, so I said you'll not be sure as well in the future if you're not sure about me now. Then said I'll never come to see you if you don't say something now and he said nothing...I left.

I know I was so stupid. At that moment, I was mad and felt like he's betraying me, but now I understand we need time to think our relationship. Last week was my birthday, bu...

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Difference between flirting and just being friendly


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 5:59 pm

How to you tell when a guy is actually into you and flirting or if it's just his personality to be nice to everyone? Examples would be awesome! Thanks!

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am i a whore now. ? i just dunno what to do /:


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 4:48 pm

okay, before reading this .. please don't judge me. thanks....

So i'm 15 , i'm a female.. ehhhh , so i lost my virginty too my ex boyfriend/Bestfriend on june 20th 2011... we dated for a while then things dident work out so we broke up , YES we used condoms, i only did it once, Well .. once school started i started talking too this other boy, (i've been single for 4 months now..) and we was hanging out one day after school ,

we was in his car, and he kissed me. and things dident go as planed. we got real sexual. and ended up having sex , well... we still talk now, but i dont want a relationship because hes a man whore , he has alot of girls. and some how ALOT of people from my school found out about me having ...

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he doesn't care...?


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 8:28 am

General question...
We fought a lot, we werent even "together" but couldve... anyway, we were both mad at each other, now he doesnt e mail... he didnt reply..
i feel i missed who i thought he was...
do guys mean what they say when they say they dont care, do they really NOT care? or like girls, do they still think of what couldve happened, what is she thinking...
why do girls think a LOT about situations, and guys seem to dont care as much?


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