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My boyfriend is going to call me? He's not sure about me after I dumped him, but now I want him back!
I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he's not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship.
He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I'm the one who spend his lifetime together when he's seeing me. I couldn't understand why he changed his mind and said that he needs time to think, so I said you'll not be sure as well in the future if you're not sure about me now. Then said I'll never come to see you if you don't say something now and he said nothing...I left.
I know I was so stupid. At that moment, I was mad and felt like he's betraying me, but now I understand we need time to think our relationship. Last week was my birthday, but he didn't wish me a happy birthday. We haven't contacted since we broke up. It's been a month.
His birthday is coming in 3weeks. I don't know what I can do, because I'm afraid of that he's already over me. I'm giving him a space and time to think even I didn't tell him. Will he think I'm over him too? That's why he doesn't contact me? Should I wish him a happy birthday?
He had engaged last year. I'm worried he's going back to his ex fiancé, but I don't know what he thinks so I don't know what I should do. Could you guys give me some advice? I want to know what guys think in this situation.
The reason why I'm confused is that I'm the one breaking him technically, but he was the one who needs time to think. Am I the one who have to contact him first? or should he contact me first? if I want this relationship is going to work again.
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So he was engaged and then dumped his fiance? Then, and I'm only guessing, you guys were perhaps talking about marriage down the line and he got cold feet and fled again? Does that sum it up? You see a pattern here?
Then you basically gave him an ultimatum. I personally don't do ultimatums. Someone gives me one and I tell them to take a hike.
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Move on.
Thats really all you can do. If he wanted to speak to you and/or be with you, he would. You left him, so you can't really expect much out of him. When you break up with someone at your age, it is usually for good; not one of these "Oh I'm breaking up with you, but next week we will get back tyogether". For people in their teens and early twenties-those are the type of break up's they have.
If you want to wish him a happy birthday, than go for it. But don't expect him to reply back, or to want you back.
I'd just give up contact all together. If he wanted to speak with you, he would do it on his own.
Good Luck.
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You dumped him, From the sound of it he moved on.
You really think he owes it too you to call you and wish you a happy birthday? You two aren't together anymore and he owes you nothing. To demand is selfish and immature. This man is obviously done with your games, It's been a month if he was rethinking of being in a relationship with you then he would of took the time to contact you.
Yes, He may of gone back to his ex fiance and if he did then you are in no place to try and get him back as he then clearly made up his mind. Trying win someone back isn't going to make them want to be with you it will make them resent you. Except it and move on.
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