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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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friend dilemna


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 6:13 pm

ok, well ive been friends with the same people for a really long time, lets call them erica tracy janice laura and krista. well erica tracy and janice now are like...not even close to being my friend like we dont say it but they hate me and tell other ppl who tell me. and krista and laura are so exclusive when they are together. last year i became best friends with these 2 girls lets call them sarah and briana... but sarah and brianas friends i have the feeling dont lyk me so much, and none of my friends ask me to hang out with them...and sometimes i really don't even think they like me at all. i know im really perenoid, but i need to know a way to get invited places with both groups of friends...and how do i get their friends to like me without changing myself?

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Posted Friday April 13 2007, 5:43 pm

14/f

so recently, like 2 or 3 months ago, i went to a new school. and it was great, like i made a ton of new friends and everything.. but im finding out now, the group of friends i have now, i don't like them as much as i did in the beginning. i mean, like there all stuck up. and thats how my old friends were, and i just don't wanna get caught up with that whole type of thing again. like for example, were all in 8th grade, and there all dating like highschool guys, and like there all hot and stuff, and so 2 of the girls talk about it allll the time. the other 2 dont. and then, these other 2 girls, just sit there and whisper. like all the time. and then the one that i thought i liked the most, is SUPER SUPER bossy. like oh my...

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One of my friends is too clingy


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 4:30 pm

I have this one friend, we'll call her Shell, who is really clingy. It usually doesn't bother me that my friends wanna hang out and stuff, but Shell wants to talk to me all the time! I mean, I have friends that don't go to my school, and she does. Well, she wants to talk to me all the time, and when I tell her I need to talk to my other friends, she gets mad and starts saying I don't want to talk to her because she just talks about her problems. That is kind of true, but it isn't that. It's that she is really clingy, and a lot of the stuff she says happens or is happening sounds way to far fetched to be true. She sounds genuine when she talks about it, but it sound a little to out there. Anyway, my question is how do I get her not to be so cling all the time?

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arrive and leave and arrive AGAIN...


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 3:33 pm

i moved 2 years ago to the place i am now, but the problem is that i am finding it hard to make more friends. Almost everyone at my "new" school has been here since they were in preschool and all know each other. i have climbed my way up a social ladder while i watched other people take the elevator. i have really great friends, who are the ditzy kind of people who are outrageuously outgoing and know everybody. you'd think that that'd make me more in depth with everybody, but it hasn't. all the "unpopular" people as my friends refer to them as have been friends with the "popular" people but have then drifted away. i don't know how to reach out to people i want to be friends with. i am becoming more and more out...

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jealous of bestfriend friend


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 10:56 am

14/f
So i know this story may sound selfish but i cant help it! My bestfriend( known her since 2nd grade got closer in high school) is bestfriends with this other girl(name=chy) she meant like ONE MONTH ago and i dont mind that but everytime i make plans with my bestfriend shes like ohh sorry im hanging out with chy. im like ok .. then like in school ill ask her to hangout when shes free and she will say CAN CHY COME ill be like umm i cant go and like i make it obvious i dont like chy because chy never liked me( and ive told my bestfriend this but shes like oh) ughh.! and my bestfriends computer is broken so she tells me to go check it for her and i do and i realized that her top is :: HER COUSIN, CHY, HER SISTER,ME
i didnt t...

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Friends


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 7:30 am

I want a friend who i see all the time and hang around with mostly and not sometimes i mean all the time and i cant see most of my friends that arent that close
But i want a friend who i see all the time

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my face


Posted Friday April 13 2007, 1:41 am

i am a really insecure person and i am always getting teased about the way i look kids say things like what you looking at fatty and stuff like your never gonna get a boyfriend and if you did i feel sorry for him.and i have pimples anyway i can get rid of dem help me plz.

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Friends?


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 10:33 pm

15f

I know i have the greatest friens out there but i keep doubting myself for the 'cooler' ones.
like i did something stupid that made the 'cool' girls not wanna b my friends and i keep thinking if i had the chance to earase wat i did and start fresh that i would. but those girls r so mean for dumping me in the first place! like i didnt do anything major just an accadent! but i no my freinds r the sweetest, prettiest, and motst loyal peeople ever. why do i want to be their friends? i know there mean biotchess.

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whats wrong with me??


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 10:25 pm

i dont know.. but i guess i always envy other peoples friends. i mean like you hear about people being the best ever.. but they arent my friends. some of my friends arent even really like me, and i dont know why i hang out with some of them. i mean, some of them are, and i enjoy being around them more. but i also kinda have trouble making new friends, after being around people now for this year and for some even years before.. but we just never talked enough to be like close, or i hardly even talk to them. and i dont know if i want to be popular or not.. i mean i say that i dont really care, but i guess i also judge people by like how they look, and if they dont dress like nicely and atleast put together and somewhat goodlooking, i treat t...

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bestfriend- wont talk to me anymore...


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 9:50 pm

my bestfriend recently hasnt been talking to me...and i tried talking to him about it and he just blew me off...

should i try talking to him again? it doesnt seem like he even listens...

what should i do?

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Does he like me?


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 8:42 pm

I'm currently just a friend to this guy.
He's sweet and thougtful. I told him once I realy like him, but he never responded on that subject. I can't tell he likes me or not. (He kissed me twice....)

When I write emails or txt msg to him, he will respond right the way,(I like that) but he usually just rwspond my question, not really asking me question (almost it seems doesn't matter to him).
If I asked him out, he will usually says yes, but 3 out of 5, he will cancel it or come out some kind of excuse that he can't make it.

I'm confused. Does he like me or not?

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my friend still pleeease help mee


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 7:31 pm

13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me befor the party because we told eachother. but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party recently. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? But im the kind of gothic violen...

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my best guy friend


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 7:03 pm

16/f. My best friend, a guy, talks to me all the time about shit that goes on with him, like at home(his home life is very f***ed up). Mostly it's on AIM. And I'm really glad that he talks to me, cuz we have a history(long story) and we are best friends. But a lot of the time I don't know what to say in response. I'll say I'm sorry and stuff like that, but I feel like I have to say more. But like what? I just need him to know that I will always be there for him and he can talk to me about anything, and I'm sure he knows that, I've shown it. Do I need to say anything else?

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Karoke


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 5:57 pm

Does anybody know some good karoke places that will recored the singing and give the CD to you (up to $100 for payment) MUST be somewhere near Winter Haven FL

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uggh... friends


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 5:19 pm

ok. 14/f. my life with friends right now sucks so much. i can't take it anymore. i have 2 different stories about 2 diffrent friends. ok, so my first friend.. we'll call her.. Lacy.lol. well, we have this huge science project to do. and our teacher allowed us to have partners. and me and Lacy have been friends for about 2 years now, so we're pretty good friends. we're in our science class together, so we decided to be partners together. well, a diffrent girl in our class asked the teacher if we could have partners from diffrent classes. and he said that would be ok. so we started doing more reaserch and stuff. well, in a different class that we have together today, she goes "ok, i have to tell you something but please don't get mad&quo...

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growing apart


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 4:14 pm

Hi. Lately I've been feeling like I've been growing apart from my friends and idk why... it seems like I'm always the one making plans with any of my friends and it really sucks. Most of them have boyfriends now that they hang out with 24/7 and I don't, so I'm hanging out with them less, or so it seems.
I've just been really bored and lonely lately and I know that's stupid because I do have alot of friends...but for the past 2 weeks I've just been home bored most of the time and I don't have any plans unless I call someone; no one is even making plans with me.
I hate this lonely feeling, it's pretty depressing. Why do I always have to make plans with my friends instead of them making plans with me? Now I have a week off from...

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why did she tell me that?


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 3:42 pm

Me and my four friends (we are all girls age20's) went to the swimming pool the other day and one of my friends didn't have a bathing suite I dared her to jump in with her clothes still on. she did we all laughed and then she came up to me and said "hey guess what my bra is wet" i looked at her and looked away and said "thanks for the notice i guess" and i saw her smiled.

why did she tell me that?

I got one answer from Yahoo answers, they said
"it's probably an innocent comment. she probably didn't mean anything sexual by it."

what does that mean?
How can that be a innocent comment?


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becoming better friends


Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 3:11 pm

okay so theres this guy that used to live by me but i never really knew him when he did live by me but a lot of my friends did...well anyways now he lives in ohio and me and him have been talking for a few months now and i dont really think i like him in a boyfriend/girlfriend way maybe just a good friend way but i want to start getting closer to him like so he'll open up more to me and i can tell him things about guys and friends here and he can do the same with me..but im not sure how start getting closer..any ideas .. PS..he has a gf and i have a bf

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Friends not telling me things


Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 7:04 pm

Okay so i have a friend, lets call her Maria. Maria is one of my best friends and I'm pretty sure I'm one of hers. I think that she is really sick. She told 2 of our friends what was going on. Apparently she had to go to a hospital or something and she is going to be absent for like two weeks or something. She hasnt told me anything. I have asked her whats wrong and she replied "personal problems" on texting. I've called her and she hasnt answered. I have texted her asking for details. I have IMed her, but when I do puts up an away message. I am really concerned about her and its hurting me that she doesnt feel like she can tell me. What can I do to get her to tell me, or at least talk to me?

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My best friend is acting really different


Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 6:01 pm

13/f my best friend and i have know eachother for 3 years. We had two major fights that lasted atleast 1/2 a year each and i know her to well and i noticed shes changed. In the sixth grade we both made a promise to eachother as to not let eachother turn into a preppy know-it-all b***h. and now we dont talk as much as we used to and she started hanging out with the people she said she hated (preps) she tried to go anorexic too because she thought she was fat, and shes not even close to it, but i made her eat. Shes been really bitchy latly too. the other day we were texting and then she started saying how she was fat and i told her she wasnt fat at all. then she says well atleast i care about how i look unlike someone. and she was refering to...

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