I know i have the greatest friens out there but i keep doubting myself for the 'cooler' ones.
like i did something stupid that made the 'cool' girls not wanna b my friends and i keep thinking if i had the chance to earase wat i did and start fresh that i would. but those girls r so mean for dumping me in the first place! like i didnt do anything major just an accadent! but i no my freinds r the sweetest, prettiest, and motst loyal peeople ever. why do i want to be their friends? i know there mean biotchess.
Maybe you're looking back at the good old times and wanting all that to come back - when you know that's not possible. Maybe your new circle of friends is not as active or awesome as your previous one, but just give it time. It'll work out at the end.
You're 15, after all. There's loads of time ahead of you.
I can tell that this is really bugging you, since you've posted this question (diff. versions though) three times already. But don't let it get to you this much. Getting over the past is difficult and I'm not saying that you'll wake up next morning with a new fresh mentality and stuff. No. This will take time but you'll need to give it the time.
It's true that old friends are gold and new ones are silver but you can make all that crap types of cliche sayings go away. Your new friends are gold and the old ones are silver. Think like that.
I'll be keeping an eye on you just in case you need more help. =)
Feel free to send anything to my inbox. I'm available at all times (IM, email, whatever) and wil help you whenever you want.
Brandi_S answered Friday April 13 2007, 1:36 am: My question is the same as yours. Why would you want to be friends with them?
Listen, if your current friends are the greatest, then bravo for you. You are a lucky girl. And, you don't need the 'cool' girls to be your friends, because if they are bitches, then they really aren't so cool as you think, now are they?
Sounds to me like you run with the ultimate cool crowd already. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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