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uggh... friends
ok. 14/f. my life with friends right now sucks so much. i can't take it anymore. i have 2 different stories about 2 diffrent friends. ok, so my first friend.. we'll call her.. Lacy.lol. well, we have this huge science project to do. and our teacher allowed us to have partners. and me and Lacy have been friends for about 2 years now, so we're pretty good friends. we're in our science class together, so we decided to be partners together. well, a diffrent girl in our class asked the teacher if we could have partners from diffrent classes. and he said that would be ok. so we started doing more reaserch and stuff. well, in a different class that we have together today, she goes "ok, i have to tell you something but please don't get mad" and i said "ok, i won't" and Lacy goes "well, i think i'm going to be with "Tiffany" (changed name) because she didn't have anyone to be with." and i go "ok" and acted like i wasn't mad, but i really was furious. so now i have to do it by myself, cause my other friends already have partners. but i don't want her to find out i'm mad, cause i don't want to start anything, so what should i do? i don't want to say anything cause that would prolly make her mad. ok, second story. there is this girl.. "Lisa" and we were pretty good friends at the beginning of 8th grade. but she gets mad really easily about the STUPIDIST things ever. even if you say one tiny thing that is a little bit annoying. well, i'm almost positive i didn't do anything to her, and she has totally been ignoring me. and if she does talk to me, its usually really rude. but i'm starting not to care because i think she is annoying, and alot of our other friends think she is annoying. they have told me that before.and she is so despreate for friends its sad. lol. but still, what should i do? should i ignore her? i really feel like i can't trust any of my friends anymore. and its NOT just those 2 friends. what should i do about my friends? sometimes they seem to like me, but other times not. thanx. <3 luv
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First about Lacy. For her to ditch you like that was wrong, and you need to tell her that it made you upset, ans however else it made you feel. If you don't tell her, she will never know. And if she asks why you didn't tell her then and there, tell her the truth.
Now for Lisa. Since she doesn;t have friends, she might be a little dramatic about things, or that may be why she doesn't have many friends. But, if you do still want to be her friend, you should stop her and ask her why she is ignoring you, and that you want to know if you did something. Notice I said if you want to be friends with her, not your friends, you. Most people will not be friends with someone because their friends don't like them, and that is wrong. If you want to be her friend, then your friends should be ok with that. But if Lisa doesn't want to be your friend, just let it go. Hope this helps.
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It's messed up how your friend would just leave you for another person. Yeah it's just a project, but I would be really mad & I would let her know about it. She deserves to know that what she did was really stupid & now she left you alone. If you don't tell her how you felt about it, she will keep doing these things to you. She has no reason to get mad at you. You didn't do anything wrong and it's her fault so if she does get mad, don't worry about it. Now about Lisa,.. she seems like a really big drama queen that loves attention. I hate when people get mad about the stupidest things. THAT is the most annoying thing. Since she's so desparate for friends, maybe you guys should let her know how her behavior is and the way that she treats you. She doesn't seem like a really good friend so if she's going to ignore you, YOU ignore her. You don't need to waste your time trying to make her happy or for her to talk to you. You don't need her. It's normal to feel like you can't trust your friends but truth is, you can't always. The only people that you should trust is your closest family. Friends act weird around friends and that's understandable and it will always be like that. But next time that something bothers you, you need to talk to that person. Don't worry about them being mad at you for telling the truth. I ALWAYS say what's on my mind and I know that sometimes it isn't what they want to hear, but I speak up about it and it makes our friendships better and closer.
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