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friend dilemna
ok, well ive been friends with the same people for a really long time, lets call them erica tracy janice laura and krista. well erica tracy and janice now are like...not even close to being my friend like we dont say it but they hate me and tell other ppl who tell me. and krista and laura are so exclusive when they are together. last year i became best friends with these 2 girls lets call them sarah and briana... but sarah and brianas friends i have the feeling dont lyk me so much, and none of my friends ask me to hang out with them...and sometimes i really don't even think they like me at all. i know im really perenoid, but i need to know a way to get invited places with both groups of friends...and how do i get their friends to like me without changing myself?
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If I were you, I would definetely feel the same way you are now...stuck in a tricky situation. Anyway, I would approach this by being as nice as you can (not fake nice) but cool nice, the best thing you can do is be the person both groups know and like. Hang out with both groups, even if you are by one of your friends and another one of your friends passes by that the friend you are currently with doesnt like, make sure you go out of your way and say hi anyway. (get it lol)For example: you are talking with say your friend Taylor, and Melisa walks by but taylor hates melisa and you dont...make sure regardless of what "Taylor" thinks of "Melisa" always say hi or give a wave. Also, start with making plans to go out with them yourself and invite them. Try to also make some new friends too! GoOd LuCk!!!! P.S a VERY important key in friendship is if you come across the famous gossiping, and it just so happens your friend>"Taylor" is talking badly about your other friend>"Melisa" and you know it is wrong for you to join in then just sit and listen, NEVER make the horrible mistake of talking.
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