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Hi. Im 15.
So i have a friend problem.
I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and i consider her to be one of my best friend out of like 4. But the thing is, theres many many times where she has made me upset, and kind of screwed me over for someone else, and did bad stuff and said bad stuff. and everytime we get in a fight im always the one to say sorry first.
but i keep giving her chances because when she doesn't act all bitchy shess one of the most FUNNEST BEST people i can ever be around.
And i feel like i should stop being friends with her but its not what i really want. I keep letting it get in the way. I dont know why i still wanna be best friends with her but i do because i love her as my best friend.
And we get into fights or arguments not that much but often. And im always there for her.
But shes never really there for me when im crying or anything.
I know, your probabaly thinking why are you still friends with her?
And i have no idea!
I still love her as a friend.
And i want a better friendship with her.
But she thinks she never does anything wrong when she does and she never beleives me or agrees with me when i tell her this.
But shes still my best friend.
I'm so confused.
What should i do? HELP?!
Love Confused Girl.
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I think you've already made your decision =[. You love her and still want her as a best friend. But who would want a best friend that doesn't stick around and comfort you whenever needed. A best friend is a person who would cry when you're crying just so you won't feel awkward and embarrassed. it doesn't sound like she'll be doing that for you any time soon. You sound like your a good person, don't let somebody screw you over. I'm not saying don't be friends with her. Just know how she is in your head. And know what she's about. I wouldn't consider her a best friend by what you're saying.
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you should find out if she really cares about you as much as you care about her. have another friend ask her if she considers you one of her best friends. if she doesn't consider you a best friend, then you shouldn't consider her one, either.
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A best friend is when you guys stick together. You always got each others back. The only time you wouldnt have there back if they did something wrong. You should tell her how you feeling. If she gets mad its her prob not yours because you didnt do nothing wrong. I now how ya feel i thought i had a friend but she would always talk about me when she was high or drunk. Than she say she was sorry a different day she was just high or drunk. Don't worry you'll find a real friend. Maybe we can be friends if ya want. I'm just saying.
Jay
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