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heyy i'm kelsey. feel free to ask me a question anytime. i love to help people out and my friends say i give really good advice(: so if you ever need help i'm here(:
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Member Since: September 6, 2009
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Last Update: February 16, 2010
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ok I have recently been having really shap pains in my abdomen. I mena it really have been hurting me. What could this mean I mean I am 14 and I don't know what to think. I have missed my period and I was suppose to get it on the 3rd here we are on the 19th what could this mean. please help. (link)
you could have an ovarian torsion? this happened to my sister, it means that your ovary is like, kind of twisted, and you need to see a doctor. i don't want to scare you, but you may need surgery if it is that problem, just saying u really do need to get it checked :( feel better


I can't seem to find the perfect bra, or even a really good fitting one. I'm a 34D and I have spent so much money trying to find a bra that fits well. Obviously, I need a good supportive bra and something that has good coverage so I'm not spilling out all over the place. The bras that usually come in my size, are sort of.. old fashioned and like what my mother wears. I just can't find something that's youthful but with support and coverage. Are there any brands that anyone has tried and loved? (link)
a 34D is the same as a 36C, i don't know if that's any help, but there might be more selections .


It's sad, but it's the second real week of school and I already feel inadequate. I'm a junior and in 3 AP classes: Chemistry, European History, and English, as well as Honors Pre-Calc and Honors Italian 4. I'm okay in the Honors classes, and this isn't the first time I've taken an AP class -- I took AP US History last year. I just feel like in the AP classes, I'm not doing that well. I'm guessing I'm just worrying, but I just don't feel smart. I got straight A's last year, and now it's all mid-B's.

English is worrying me the most. It makes me feel like crap that I work pretty hard and I only get 85's. I know, it's an AP class and I'm probably lucky to get that grade even if I did work really hard. It just makes me feel bad because I've ALWAYS been good at writing. I love writing poetry and creative stories, however, I'm pretty bad when it comes to informative pieces. The comments on my papers (things like "Too wordy", "Awkward sentence structure/wording", "Not specific enough/too specific") hit me really hard, hah. I know it's just constructive criticism, but I don't know. I'm just usually good at stuff like this, and it's not like I have time for extra practice. I volunteer at the hospital, am in a lot of clubs, have classes basically all day on Saturday for this Upward Bound program I'm in, and I have to babysit all the time for a boy my family took in (2 yrs), among other things. I'm worried I'm a terrible writer now and I should just stop trying to write that book I've been drafting for a while.

Maybe I'm just worried because it's Junior year and I don't want to slip. I really need my grades to be high, and I want to get into an amazing college. Not only that, I just don't want to feel stupid. :P

I'm sure I'm just being a wuss, but anyone have any opinions on this? Thanks! (link)
an 85 is a high b, and a b is above average. you shoukd only start to worry about your grades if youre getting like all cs ds and fs. ap classes can be really hard, but it's always harder at the beginning so don't stress yourself out 2 much, it makes u age faster(:


I live in FL usa and this person called my at&nt samsung cell phone and used *69 so i didn't know who it was. They used a voice disguiser... i think. it was deep and scratchy like bad connection. i think he said my name so it might be someone i know but idk im sooo scared it freaked the crap out of me and im a paranoid person so i think it may be a stalker but it probably isnt. what do i do? i don't think it is any of my friends and i don't give my number to a lot of people. HELP!!! (link)
no, they used *67 to disguise their #. call *69 and it will give you the number. if that doesn't work, call the phone company


i have been smoking a lot of weed and i recently have gotten migraines from it. is that possiable? because research shows that marijuuana relieves migraines.


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the migraines probably aren't from smoking, but you really should stop smoking. it isn't healthy, not to mention it's illegal. as for the migraines, caffieine helps. drink some coffee and if that doesn't help, you should see a dr.


Hey, so my boyfriend is turning 17, and i wanted to do sometihng really special for him. we have been together for around 10 months now. I have a pink helmet with flowers, which costed about $5, because its a joke me and his family have because he got hurt, adn his family jokes that they want him to wear it when he drives, and a $50 gas card. I want to give him both those on the 18th because thats when his drivers test is. Then on the 24th, his actual birthday, i have a wheezy plush thing from toy story 3 (another joke between us) which costed $20, a tshirt from his favorite band $20, and clocky (the alarm clock that runs away because he can NEVER wake up with an alarm) which costed $50. I know i spent a lot of money already, but he means so much to me and spent $200 on a camera for me for our six month anniversary, so moeny isnt an object. I want to get him something else too though. He lovesss american eagle, but he has speciffic taste in clothes, and i dont want to get him something he wont like but feels obligated to wear. Also, i dont want to get him a gift card because itd feel like impersonal. I was thinking of getting him a watch. I heard fossil is a good company, but i dont want anything too expensive. i found one on overstock.com, because the ones on the website are so expensive.
http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Fossil-Mens-Diamond-Charcoal-Dial-Watch/4220367/product.html

In your opinion, do you think its too much money to be spending, and do you think he wil like the watch, or would he perfer something from ae? And also, if you order from overstock will in come in a fossil box or an overstock one? THANK YOU SO MUCH (link)
personally, i don't think that's too much. i think a watch is a good gift. if you know his taste in clothes really well, maybe you should try ae. i'm pretty sure, but not 100% sure, that the watch will come in a fossil box, but if you don't like the overstock box you can always get a different one.


I was with my ex for 11 months and we split up in march this year. We had our ups and downs to the relationship and decided to split up as we felt it just wasn't working and the romance was gone n we would be better off just friends before it ended badly. My friends and family were supportive of this as they felt that he didn't treat me right anyway. But at the time ididn't notice it and when we split up i was so happy like i felt like myself again.

It's been about 6 months since we split up and we've now started getting really close again and spending alot of time together and we've both admitted we miss each other and want to give it another shot but take it really slow. Only thing is is that my dads opinion means everything to me i'm such a daddy's girl but my dad doesn't like my ex and i'm scared to dissappoint him by telling him we're getting back together, same goes for my friends as they dn't think it's a good idea, and thats fair enough but i still really love him. (link)
if you're in love, that should matter most. tell your dad that you're sorry that he doesn't like him, but you can't help who you fall in love with! if there really isn't a good reason for your friends and family to dislike him, they're being too judgemental.


im 14 and female and i like my friend. hes a very depressed person (i am too but not as much as he is) who used to not be very nice to me. he was never really open and he never gave me high fives like everyone else. but now hes starting to be a little more open towards me and hes giving me high fives. this all happened very quickly. i dont know if he likes me the way i like him. it bothers me a lot. please give me advice. (link)
if he's a close friend, try asking him if he has a crush on any girls. if he says no, maybe ask him if he's ever considered you. if you two don't work out, staying friends would be best no matter how awkward it is. eventually you will find someone else, and a crush isn't worth losing a friend over.


i have got quite bad spots on my face so i always were make up wich really does help hide them but you can still see the bumps on my face if you no what i mean i have tried many creams and washing things but nothing seems to work and i carnt take tablets so is there any way i could get rid of them ? (link)
anything with benzoyl peroxide will help clear them up. as for makeup, try a more yellow-colored foundation and then a concealer that's just a tiny bit lighter than your skin.


Hi. Im 15.

So i have a friend problem.
I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and i consider her to be one of my best friend out of like 4. But the thing is, theres many many times where she has made me upset, and kind of screwed me over for someone else, and did bad stuff and said bad stuff. and everytime we get in a fight im always the one to say sorry first.
but i keep giving her chances because when she doesn't act all bitchy shess one of the most FUNNEST BEST people i can ever be around.

And i feel like i should stop being friends with her but its not what i really want. I keep letting it get in the way. I dont know why i still wanna be best friends with her but i do because i love her as my best friend.

And we get into fights or arguments not that much but often. And im always there for her.
But shes never really there for me when im crying or anything.

I know, your probabaly thinking why are you still friends with her?

And i have no idea!
I still love her as a friend.
And i want a better friendship with her.
But she thinks she never does anything wrong when she does and she never beleives me or agrees with me when i tell her this.

But shes still my best friend.
I'm so confused.
What should i do? HELP?!


Love Confused Girl. (link)
you should find out if she really cares about you as much as you care about her. have another friend ask her if she considers you one of her best friends. if she doesn't consider you a best friend, then you shouldn't consider her one, either.


I am a 13 year old girl. I like this boy but he asked out my friend before me but we got really close we talk every night and he says i love you and everything. Im scared to date him cause my friend also hates him cause he liked her. what should ido or say to her? Thanks! (link)
you need to choose who is more important to you...this boy or your friends. if he's telling you he loves you when he's going out with one friend and has a crush on another girl also, he isn't worth your time! find someone who isn't such a player.




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