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growing apart
Hi. Lately I've been feeling like I've been growing apart from my friends and idk why... it seems like I'm always the one making plans with any of my friends and it really sucks. Most of them have boyfriends now that they hang out with 24/7 and I don't, so I'm hanging out with them less, or so it seems.
I've just been really bored and lonely lately and I know that's stupid because I do have alot of friends...but for the past 2 weeks I've just been home bored most of the time and I don't have any plans unless I call someone; no one is even making plans with me.
I hate this lonely feeling, it's pretty depressing. Why do I always have to make plans with my friends instead of them making plans with me? Now I have a week off from school and I don't want to just be bored the whole week or have to make all the plans? :-( :-(
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I will hate that if that will happen to me and it might. but listen dont worrie they will realize that boyfriends arnt they only thing in the world. my sister made a mistake by always going out with her bf and not her friends. now she has no friends but her bf and they arnt working out well. talk to your so called friends, people have to make a equle amount of how much time they hang out with someone.(like they hang with you the other day and then they hanr w/ their bf the next)
they dont know how you feel so talk. or if the answer "oh no dont worrie we are still friends lets do something the next day" then they call "oh sorry i have to do somethin bla blah blah." then they become flaky on you. Now that is not a real friend. dont stay in your house moody all day show them that your alot of fun too.
just say "if your flaking on me then whats the point of being my friend, you just waest my time worring about our friendship and you dont even call cause blah blah ect." basically show your feelings how much you care about them.
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hey i know that you probally don't want to hear "talk to them about how you feel" because i know when i felt that way thats what everyone told me, but all you can do is to keep asking them and when the time is right ask them if anything is bothering them, and see if you can get them to talk about it. if you talk to them and things don't change, maybe you should reconsider and reevaluate those friendships. and as for this week you have off, call a friend that you haven't hung out for awhile that might be fun.
hope this helps
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