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jealous of bestfriend friend
14/f
So i know this story may sound selfish but i cant help it! My bestfriend( known her since 2nd grade got closer in high school) is bestfriends with this other girl(name=chy) she meant like ONE MONTH ago and i dont mind that but everytime i make plans with my bestfriend shes like ohh sorry im hanging out with chy. im like ok .. then like in school ill ask her to hangout when shes free and she will say CAN CHY COME ill be like umm i cant go and like i make it obvious i dont like chy because chy never liked me( and ive told my bestfriend this but shes like oh) ughh.! and my bestfriends computer is broken so she tells me to go check it for her and i do and i realized that her top is :: HER COUSIN, CHY, HER SISTER,ME
i didnt tell her this cause i think its stupid.
and i just cant stop but be jealous of their friendship. How do i get over this?
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You need to tell your best friend how you feel. She's never gonna know if you don't come right out and tell her. Tell her you don't like Chy, and you're tired of being left out or ignored for her. If your friend is really your friend, she'll understand & try to fix things. If things don't change over about 2 weeks, be friends with someone else.
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so i know how you feel the best thing to do is try something that helps you calm down like a stress free thing. take time to think about everything and it will help. make sure even if it's something stupid you tell your friend whats wrong because if you dont it will just keep bothering you, and trust me when you tell her it changes alot and you will feel alot better.
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ok. this has happened MANY times w/ my previous friendships. you should definitely talk to your best friend. Ask her "why doesn't she hang out w/you anymore?" don't mention anything about chy. because then, it would seem like you ARE jealous, then your best friend would start attacking you!![NOT PHYSICALLY] if she makes up some excuse like,"oh i'm hanging out w/ chy!" or something related to that, then you should ask her why does she like hanging out with chy more than she does with you, especially since you knew her since 2nd grade!!! if you need anymore advice, or need help, feel free to INBOX ME. =]
HOPE I HELPED
***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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