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My best friend is acting really different
13/f my best friend and i have know eachother for 3 years. We had two major fights that lasted atleast 1/2 a year each and i know her to well and i noticed shes changed. In the sixth grade we both made a promise to eachother as to not let eachother turn into a preppy know-it-all b***h. and now we dont talk as much as we used to and she started hanging out with the people she said she hated (preps) she tried to go anorexic too because she thought she was fat, and shes not even close to it, but i made her eat. Shes been really bitchy latly too. the other day we were texting and then she started saying how she was fat and i told her she wasnt fat at all. then she says well atleast i care about how i look unlike someone. and she was refering to me because im not one of those girls who spends 2 hours on hair, make-up and all that stuff, more like 30 minutes. Well she said sorry after and she made up the crapiest excuse ever and said that she was just moody and i know that she only says that when shes lieing to i have no idea what to do because i've tried talking to her and that just ended up with us yelling at eachother so please help me i dont want to lose my best friend
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She is probably feeling bad about being anorexic. She realized you were right about having to eat, and she is mad and happy at the same time. If that makes sense. Like she feels its her business, but at the same time she is really happy you did it.
Just talk to her and get it settled out. Then go to the movies or something. Or vice-versa.
Good luck
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Talk to her, tell her how you feel. She could be stressed about something. Make sure she knows you think she's awesome and stuff like that, but also make sure she treats you like she should and doesn't keep insulting you. Try and help her out and see if you can figure out if there's anything that's bothering her or if you can figure out what might be causing her to act so different. Good luck!
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You just need to talk to her. Tell her all of this or else she won't know how you feel. If you keep your feelings away from her, you won't be able to change anything because she wouldn't know. If you talk to her & she keeps it up, it might be in your best interest to stay away for awhile until she starts acting herself. Try to help her out though. She might just need someone to vent her feelings to.
-hope that helped!♥
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