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People behind bars
Posted Tuesday April 24 2007, 3:06 pm
Okay there's this man whom I care for very much, but he's in prison. I do not judge him because what he did wasn't really that bad. See I've known him for a little over a year. I've been in love with him for a long time and we've told eachother how we feel and that we want to be together. Except he's quite a few states away. I don't want to lose the man that I am seeing, but I don't want to lose the man that I feel like I want to be with. See I wish I knew what to do because he's a great friend too me. But I don't want to hurt anyone. Maybe someone can give me some good advice. Hope to hear from someone soon.
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Does he want our....
Posted Tuesday April 24 2007, 2:51 am
my friend Leo has a huged crush on Ana, but she doesnt like him in that way. she loves him as a brother and so do i. the whole time he was getting all hot and bothered because he told me that he was getting that way cause he was looking at Ana (all she was is staying in line, at the book store) i dont know why he was getting all hot about it. Ana notice it and she was getting grossed out about it. i understood it but what is his deal. does he want her sex and/or minnd? i know men can have feelings for a girl but they can live it in his pants. honstley what is his deal?!
he even told me he likes me too. he never changed he was like this ever sents i knew him.
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vacation
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 11:26 pm
this summer i want to go on a vacation with my best friend for 10 years. i've only gone on family vacations before and i think it would be the funnest thing in the world to go on a vacation with my friend. problem is, my parents wont' let me.. i asked if i could go with her family and they said it was placing too much responsibility in their hands and that it was "dangerous"..and if my friend went wiht our family it was placing too much responsibility on their hands and stuff.. and then when i suggested that both our families go somewhere they said that they didnt know my friends parents very well (cuz they speak different first languages, so they never spoke too much when me and my freind met up)..and they said it would probably ...
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Overshadowed
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 11:06 pm
Well basically in my group of friends, I have always been that background girl. Out of drama, out of fights, the nice shy one of the group. Although that may sound pretty good, I'm also the one that gets overshadowed by EVERYONE. I never, ever get the attention from guys, I'm never the one that all the girls want to hang out with. Pretty much, I'm never in the spotlight. I'm so sick of hearing how my friends are jugglin like 4 different boys constantly, and I have a difficult time getting one, especially when guys must be crazy if they pick me over my friends (all my friends are absolutely gorgeous by the way) I've always acted like it never bothered me, but lately it's just been really getting to me, because my whole life this is the way i...
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mean person! lol.
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 9:14 pm
hey. well there's this girl, we'll call her ...lauren. well in eigth grade we got into a fight. [yes, a fist fight] well, the thing is that she didnt even know me when she wanted to fight me. (she was the one who wanted to fight me, she punched first and so i hit back) and she won. but, she like.. sat on me and i couldnt get up and she talks about how stupid that is to do that to someone because its unfair all the time. anyway, sorry for rambling. but, she hates me. Honestly, i don't know why. I'm not one of those girls who does things and someone would actually have a ligit. reason for it. she just...hates me. i mean, in class i dont talk. and out of school we have NEVER talked, not even for a second. well, besides the fight.. but that wa...
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Boyfriend and best friend are hanging out.
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 8:46 pm
I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there.
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Talk
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 7:11 pm
Well i like this boy but he dosnt know we talk all the time but on msn we talk then we pause or will just be like hmmmm sooooooo lol can use please tell me a few things there are to talk bout we are really upfront like we tell eachother everything any adviice ??
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Our friendship is deteriorating.
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 7:08 pm
So last year in an extracurricular, I met this girl named Paige. We instantly became best friends. We shared everything and her family accepted me like one of their own daughters.
This year, Paige has a boyfriend, Joey. Joey and I don't get along...at all. She, more and more, has chosen him over me. Like, at lunch, I'll go to talk to her and she'll be talking to him, and then won't talk to me.
I am realtively popular, so I have other friends, but this is the first person that I talked about boys with. The first person I really met in high school. (We're sophomores now, both 15.)
I basically told her all of this, and we had a conversation last night about not making enemies and why I won't be mea...
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what do i say?
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 4:59 pm
Please help this is kind of long, though.
I am 13, female. There is this kid who just asked me out. My friends gave me a heads up so I knew. They said I would look really cute with him. But there is a problem. I don't like him though. I said "I don't know. I think we would be better off friends. Sorry." Then to my friends he said things like "FUCKERRRR" and "AHHH" and "Why does everyone say no to me am I really that ugly" and that kind of stuff. I feel really bad that I said no but I just don't like him like that. I am going to talk to him later so what should I say in addition to this? "Hey. I am so sorry. I don't want you to hate me. Can we still be friends and act like nothing happened?" What else should I say?
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I had my BFF's friend
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 7:56 am
Ok my BFF has another BFF which I hate!! I think my BFF is talking about me to her, but I not sure.
How can you tell? I can't stand my BFF's friend.
What should I do, Be nice to her, or be as mean as possible?
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Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 10:34 pm
ok. during spring break me, and my friends (c,t, j, and d) hung out. well t and j were together, and c and d were. well c and d arent together anymore, and this happened like, about a week or 2 ago. well me and d were good friends. last night i get a text from him and hes like:
d:lets hook up
me:you dont mean that
d:i really do i wanted to hook up i just didnt know how to tell you i promise you
me:well, we'll see
d:let's hang out tonight
me:maybe..
d:whats wrong
me:nothing
d:what you dont want me
me:i never said that, im just thinking about c
d:well she wont find out and i promise youll like it
i really want to but i dont think it would be good. lik...
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annoying friend
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 9:50 pm
my friend is so annoying and is always bossing me around. Also he thinks he's better than me, but i think we are equal. what should i do?
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how do i..
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 9:47 pm
how do i get people to like me more? i don't want to change myself, but, can you give me steps to being, well, confident, happy and friendly? (basically, outgoing) i just want steps, or something along those lines. (for some reason, i'm better at learning things when they're in steps,lists.) anyways, thanks for the help <3.
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Desprete need of help.
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 8:13 pm
Okay well, I have This friend named Heather. And me, her and My cousin Jill are Very Close with Eachother we always hang out. But Latley they have been hanging out with eachother ALL the time and Ditching me. And Me and My cousin are Best friends. She says we are bestfriends to my mom but Then to my Face she says Heather is Her Best friend. And I cant talk to my cousin about it because knowing her she would be like. Um wow never talk to me again like she always does when i try to talk to her. And like every week i talk to heather. At First she Is Very mean to me about it and we get in fights but then at the End of the fight she Becomes so nice and says she wont do it again an and Stuff Like that.. But then she goes on and DOES IT and then i...
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perfectionist
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 8:04 pm
Ok it kinda of seems like my best friend hates me or something or maybe kinda tries to hint it.
like atleast once a day for a month now she'll say something about me being a perfectionist. Like anything I say she'll respond in like a mean FUCK OFF way, "perfectionist"
Does she hate me or something? I guess i'm kinda a perfectionist but I don't show off or anything in a snobby way. I just try to be talented in everything to please my parents and make myself feel better because I think lowly of myself.
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bestfriend//boy
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 6:24 pm
Okay this question may be kind of long and confusing but i thank you in advance if you can read it and help me. I've liked this kid well say bob for 2 years.although hes 2 years older than me and i dont really know him , know him. Okay so i really like this kid and i cant figure out why and everything. Anyways somehow we got a hold of his number (me and my bestfriend) and called him , adn than my bestfriend started texting him. She said she likes him. I dont know if this has happened to anyone but it breaks my heart.we already went through this when she liked him the first time and she lied to me about it.Than she said it hurt too much that it hurt me , so she didnt like him anymore.Than she likes him again. She said she could see them go...
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new people at camp!
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 5:28 pm
hey.
well i'm going to a rowing camp for the first time this summer. i've never been to camp before. it's ages 12-18 and i'm SO scared! like i won't know anyone. and most people that are there will probably have been there for like 3 years. i'm SO scared!! like this isn't like going to school cause people will already have friends and stuff. i'm a pretty outgoing girl except when i'm left by myself - if i had a friend there, i'd be superr outgoing. can someone give me some advice? & people don't just say, "just be yourself & be friendly!" like some serious advice.
thanks.
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criticizing friend
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 4:19 pm
so i have this friend. and she criticizes EVERYTHING, especially music. so i found this new band mcfly, and i like them and they're pretty good, they're a british punk band. and she HATES them. shes always saying they're whiny and nasty and a boy band, and she hasnt listened to them. so i said cute is what we aim for is whiny and nasty. but, ive actually listened to them and i think they are like that. then she got mad and started flipping out saying cute is what we aim for is not whiny and that i didnt know what i was talking about and stuff. this is just getting really annoying and if she listened to them and then said they were whiny, id be fine with it. because she at least have something to base her opinion off of. but she refuses to l...
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quotes?
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 12:54 pm
i need a quote.
something that sends a message.
how i hate when 3 of my friends
go "awwwwwww" or "awwwwwww you like him"
or "he likes youuuuuuuuuu"
whenever i somewhat like someone.
or they think someone likes me
and i dont do that to them.
and it gets annoying
and i dont want to go right out and say that.
any quote or lyric i can use?
or something you could create?
thanks
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my 'bff' and i at a party he tried so much to hurt me it wor
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 12:26 am
my life is falling apart in hate~13/f i ask alot of questions about being gothic and depressed. but i always thought my life was the worst ever but no now it is. i feel useless like absolutly nothing now just am stareing and feel nothing. just 7 minutes ago i was crying my eyes out and screaming and just going crazy. then it just all came to me. my life. i went to a party yesterday. my bff is a guy jake and a girl carly. so im with them alot. then carly is friends now with jakes other bff. so theres us 4. 2 girls 2 guys. jake and i love eachother so i thought. carly and tom like eachother. the 2 guys thought itd be funny if they danced with every other girl. tom tried to make carly jelous bc he likes her alot but she wont date him and she u...
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