Okay well, I have This friend named Heather. And me, her and My cousin Jill are Very Close with Eachother we always hang out. But Latley they have been hanging out with eachother ALL the time and Ditching me. And Me and My cousin are Best friends. She says we are bestfriends to my mom but Then to my Face she says Heather is Her Best friend. And I cant talk to my cousin about it because knowing her she would be like. Um wow never talk to me again like she always does when i try to talk to her. And like every week i talk to heather. At First she Is Very mean to me about it and we get in fights but then at the End of the fight she Becomes so nice and says she wont do it again an and Stuff Like that.. But then she goes on and DOES IT and then i talk to her bout it agian and it keeps happening and happening and then when I tell her shes doing it she gets SOO mad at me and Says she doesnt do it. And Every night I find myself histerically crying. and I dont know what to do. I Get Very jelous when they hang out and i dont want to be but i cant help it. And my cousin ever sence we were little she LOVED to get me jelous cause she knows it works.. I just need help. I dont want to Cry anymore.
P.S When I tell Heather i dont want to be friends with her. I always miss her and in a month we are best friends again because i cant stand not being her friend.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? HereForYou answered Monday April 23 2007, 10:29 am: Aww...that happened to me when i was a kid! first we wanna be friends then i get jealous and they ditch me and we have fights and i end up crying (i was sooooooo sensitive like too extreme)then we're friends again and it happens all over again! but in the end...we grew up and we're still friends now and we haven't faught after that year! We never fight...so i'm telling you this will go away by itself trust me....and if doesn't my advice to you is get better friends! Show them that you're strong and ignore them.... I'm sure they'll miss you and you guys will work things out ;) Hope i helped....good luck...tell me how it goes =D tc <3 [ HereForYou's advice column | Ask HereForYou A Question ]
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