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Boyfriend and best friend are hanging out.
I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there.
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I know that it can be difficult in these types of occurences but you have to be able to trust him. If he is a good boyfriend than you should know that he won't do anything to hurt you. But you should habng out with one of his friends and when he says something to you about it than you simply say that you didn't like it either.
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She is your best friend the last thing she wants to do is hurt you, talk to her again, explain that is bothers you and then you will see she will stop. You also neeed to talk to your boyfriend again and tell him your uncofortable about the whole situation.. if he loves you he will stop... and if you talk to both of them and neither will stop seeing each other one on one then just totaly for get the whole thing because you do not need to be stressed over this..But I hope things work out with you 3
-----Melanie
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I'm sorry but I've seen friendships thrown away for similar reasons. You can't have any type of relationship without trust. You have to trust both your bestfriend, and your boyfriend. If you tell them to stop hanging out, you are opening doors to a miserable relationship with your boyfriend, and no friendship with your best friend. In the end, just have trust, its a huge part in any relationship.
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tell her how you feel tell her that you really like him and you wouldnt do that to her. try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel tell him how he makes you feel. if your friend is true shell stop. hope this helps.=]
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You honestly need to stop being so jealous right now. If you can't trust your boyfriend to hang out with other girls and NOT fool around, then there's really no point in you two being together.
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