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People behind bars
Okay there's this man whom I care for very much, but he's in prison. I do not judge him because what he did wasn't really that bad. See I've known him for a little over a year. I've been in love with him for a long time and we've told eachother how we feel and that we want to be together. Except he's quite a few states away. I don't want to lose the man that I am seeing, but I don't want to lose the man that I feel like I want to be with. See I wish I knew what to do because he's a great friend too me. But I don't want to hurt anyone. Maybe someone can give me some good advice. Hope to hear from someone soon.
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You could find out what jail he is in. Either by one of his friends, roomates, parents, etc. Or, you can do some searching of your own, or did he tell you? You can write him letters, and they may let you make a telephone call as well. The only person who can make this decision is YOU. Deep inside you know how you feel. It is the choice between what you want. If i were you, i would forget the man in jail, because you may love the other man more, even though you want the other one more. Hope you make it through this situation!
edit- i just read the additional info. I would let the man that is in jail go. It may be awhile until he gets out, and you never know- you could end up wanting to be with the other man after all. (over the one in jail). I dont think getting a 2 was very fair because how was i supposed to know you had the address? I was trying to say that if you had communication with him , you could explain your dillemma to him, or maybe the letters just gave you MORE feelings towards him.
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