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Dad's Marriage
My Name is Charley and i am 14. My dad and his fiance told me about 2 years ago that they would be planning on getting married in 2007. They promised me and my siblings that we could be bridesmaids etc. Since then i have found that i am infact not invited to the wedding. I found a letter which reveals that they are going it alone. I could've accepted this if had told us before. I could still accept this if they tell us before. The date is in July, i think they will go away and do it and then come back and say it 'just happened'. What should i do until then? Am i selfish for being upset about this? Please Write Back
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No, I don't think you are selfish, but I don't think they are, either.
Maybe they don't have the money for a wedding? Even a dirt cheap wedding isn't dirt cheap. When I married, we chose to make it as small, simple, and cheap as possible, and it still cost through the nose.
Or, maybe if either or both have been previously married, they see no since in making a big to-do?
Plus, to go away and elope not only gives them their marriage, but their honeymoon at the same time.
To help you accept it, try to keep in mind that it is the marriage that is important, not the wedding day.
I'm sure that as your dearest friends marry in the future, you will have another chance to be a bridesmaid. :)
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