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mean person! lol.
hey. well there's this girl, we'll call her ...lauren. well in eigth grade we got into a fight. [yes, a fist fight] well, the thing is that she didnt even know me when she wanted to fight me. (she was the one who wanted to fight me, she punched first and so i hit back) and she won. but, she like.. sat on me and i couldnt get up and she talks about how stupid that is to do that to someone because its unfair all the time. anyway, sorry for rambling. but, she hates me. Honestly, i don't know why. I'm not one of those girls who does things and someone would actually have a ligit. reason for it. she just...hates me. i mean, in class i dont talk. and out of school we have NEVER talked, not even for a second. well, besides the fight.. but that wasnt for very long. lol. she's always soo nice to me- but behind my back she talks about me. anyway. i dont want this to escalate into a fight again because i have to focus on my studies. [like, seriously] I hope someone can give me advice on what to do whenever she does try and talk about me. do i just ignore it? do i stand up for myself? and how would i be able to do that without getting into a fight with her. if you met her, you'd know what i meant. shes the type of person who gets mad at EVERYTHING. please help & thankyou in advance.
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I'm a person who gets pissed off and annoyed easyly. but lauren should not be a kid about it. she should talk to you or you talk to her.
my friends know i get tick off easyly but they mess with me for fun. but when i'm mad at them they know when to back off to gvie me my space. and then i'll go up to them when i want. you should probably do the same. Lauren should be a grown up about it to let it go, i really dont see any thing wrong what happen or why she made a big deal about it, cause i always fits fight with my pals and its only for laughs.but just give her space wait for her to go to you. if she doesnt respon well then ignor her cause she seems to be weasting your time cause u worrying about it and you dont need to if someone not serious about you and her's friendship.
hope i help.
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i would ignore her...after awhile when she sees that ou have no reaction to this she will probably get bored and move to the next victim
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well you should stick up for yourself tell her you just want to talk not fight. tell her whats on your mind. find out why she hates you//what you did for her to hate you. things like that. if you stick up for yourself in front of alot of people then youll probably end up fighting because you cant call her out. she look whimpy. i try not to have many girl friend since they are sketchy. hope this helps.=]
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