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How do I get over the humiliation??
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 4:52 pm
...and this is how it goes. I am 23,female. I am in realtionship with this guy for the past 2 years. He is too good for me. His family never seems to approve of our relationship. He loves me a lot but crumbles under pressure. Each time I think of making this work I feel humiliated. Coz I have heard horrible things being said about me, wot I do, where I come from , the way I look, etc. I love him . But I am totally unsure. I am being pressurised all sides to make a decision coz people around think I'm growing old!!! I hate it when people taunt about me being so unsure. Help!!
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sweet 16 song for candle lighting for your boyfriend
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 4:13 pm
What 2011-2012 songs can you play for your boyfriend during a sweet 16 candle lighting?
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I think I made a deadly mistake! What do I do?!
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 1:56 pm
Hey! I'm 13/female.
Last fall I dated this boy who we'll call J.(male/15), I knew him for four years before we dated,we broke up in December and got back together in January,broke up a week later. Last friday he asked me if I still liked him,I said I did,he told me he still likes me also but the next day he was talking to my bestfriend and said he thinks i'm too inmature and I saw him that night and it did NOT look like he was interested in me,(i'm just about in love with him btw) i've been talking to his bestfriend who we'll call O.(male/15 also),and it turns out his bestfriend likes me,O. asked me out and bad thing is that I've always been attracted to O.,I said yes and I think I messed up, O. say's J. still likes me. Her...
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I don't know my boyfriends virginity status,but i'm not a virgin,he just won't talk about sex.
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 8:14 am
Beautiful people I am a 17 year old South African girl and my boyfriend is 18,we've been dating for about a month and a half now.I am not a virgin and i'm afriad that my boyfriend might be a virgin,i never asked him,neither did he,we talk about every other than sex.Yesterday i asked him what tone does he use when he's reaching an orgasm,hell yeah he got mad and told me to change the subject i don't know why.We do make up and get him horny but we never go that far and that's stressing me,we love each other i don't wanna loose him :s People do i have to asks him or what?
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Boyfriend having my sympthoms and pregnancy stuff
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 4:13 am
I know it sounds weird but, my boyfriend is experiencing cramp like feelings for the first time, that resemble my own when i'm on my period and when I just get cramps for no reason. I am currently awaiting my period which is also my natural pregnancy test. every month i go through the same thing, this time my smell senses are stronger, and i sleep a lot and a lot easier and a lot longer. and i snack all day. I always worry about this but this time i'm ready to accept whatever comes my way. we have been sexually active for about 4 years now only with eachother and we both lost out virginity to eachother. anyways my normal cramps he seems to be experiencing. his sister told him that maybe he's getting my cramps, i wasn't sure if she way jokin...
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boyfriends friends: He is splitting his leisure time between me & his male friends... is this a bad sign?
Posted Monday March 26 2012, 2:20 am
Is it a bad sign when your boyfriend splits his leisure time between you & his male friends
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He did the number one DO NOT rule
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 11:58 pm
hey, i am a columnist on here and i love helping people but now i need some help back. I've been involved with this guy over a year now, we happen to love each other. He redefined my perspective on love, on life, on MYSELF. He is... amazing.
But i live in a very strict old fashion christian family and i'm literally the only girl in my generation. My family doesn't even allow me to date and i'm EIGHTEEN!!!! Yeah... it's that bad.
But anyway... me and the guy were having sex... and he came in... not just a little bit. the full on throttle shot DEEP in there. i tried to wipe it out but idk if it did anything.
Now before you say where is the protection... talk to trojan. there condemn ripped... beaut...
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He asked me what we are
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 10:22 pm
I like him. He likes me. We fight like a married couple and play like brother and sister. He asked me what exactly what we are and I don't want to jump out and say I want to be his girlfriend because he has had a million girlfriends. What should I do?
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Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 9:50 pm
My boyfriend has a very very high sex drive. He's growing just like his dad. He masturbated once for 11 hours straight. It's worrying me for some reason. He went to a doctor but said he he's perfectly fine. He had more than 50 erections the same day. And he also masturbates in his sleep. Is any of this normal?
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How can I make him horny?
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 8:33 pm
I wanna know different ways I can make my boyfriend horny. I'm always horny with him but I wanna get him on hard as often as I can. Help me?
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Why is she acting like this all of sudden?
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 6:53 pm
Okay so I made a new friend around November of last year. The day I met her I knew I liked her a lot. Well I never said anything and we just became really close friends, like the entire school thinks were a couple no matter what we say. One of my classmates thinks we just don't want to go public yet. When I heard of this I laughed a lot. Well around January I decided to tell her my feelings for her...well she turned me down no surprise there since she told me she still likes her ex. It became awkward between us and we didnt talk as much for like a week but I guess it just blew over and we even talked more then usual. We started talking on Skype everyday after school. Well just recently I started noticing that she's been asking me if I still...
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What do you do if a guy used to like you but you dont think he does anymore
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 6:47 pm
14/f hey there, well about a month ago my boyfriend broke up with me suddenely wasn't even expecting it, and I loved him so it hit me hard. Well that night I went to my bestfriend for help and me and him skyped and his bestfriend was at his house and so he skyped with us too. I know his friend lets call him River like i've talked to him before and things well he asked me out and i said yes but just not right now because im still getting over my last boyfriend (who just broke up with me that day) and he kept saying all this nice stuff about me and how much he liked me and stuff! well i kinda liked him then not that much tho, but he really liked me and see i never really payed him much mind. Now a month or so later I really really like him no...
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He won't present me to his family,is he ashamed of me?
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 12:42 pm
(male,gay)Well,I have a boyfriend,we've been dating for almost two years and a half,but he hasn't presented me to his family as his partner,they do know me,though,but just as any other f***g friend of his,is he ashamed of me?We have been through this like a thousand times but I guess I'm just pretty tired of speaking and speaking all the time without coming to any solution,What can I do?This has already jeopardised our relationship 'cause I'm seriously thinking about dumping him,'cause I'm not a criminal,thanks in advance for your help!
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All my female friends friend-zones me
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 7:23 am
I am 19, from Singapore, I am kinda having some difficulty talking or getting to know girls. I tend to get very nervous around them. All my friends refer me as the crazy, funny guy. I can come up with a lot of jokes when I'm with my guy friends ( I have a lot of guy friends because I'm an engineering student ) but my jokes suck when I'm with... lets say a girl that I find attractive. Guess I'm not very confident. One more thing, every girl that I wooed/chased seemed to be very interested at first but after a while, they seem to lose their interest? I don't really know because they don't tell me. All they say is that I'm a nice guy and they don't wanna hurt me? WTF is that supposed to mean?! I need to know what you guys think about this. Tha...
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Is my boyfriend over his ex and does he truly love me?
Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 3:06 am
My boyfriend was dating this girl for a year and a half and they were broken up for about a month but still talking and saying they were going to fix things WHILE he was seeing me during that month, he was also having sex with a old lover of his while seeing me.. i found out after we were together that he was sleeping with the one girl and telling her that he loves her same with his ex girlfriend. we have been together for four months and live togehter ( weird i know) but it happened, when ever i bring any of them up he avoids it and tells me not to talk about them.. does he actually love me and is he over them? what are some ways to find out if he is over them completely? help please
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Getting my Guy friend back
Posted Saturday March 24 2012, 11:35 pm
My friend and I were inseparable. I liked him, he liked me. One day he was dared to ask out MY BEST FRIEND. She said Ed and they had been datin since. I was pretty jealous so I started telling her about him and I. He found out and he hasn't talked to me for months. I really want our friendship back but I don't know how. I just want it to be like old times :( how can I do that?
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I'm 13 & my boyfriend is 16...
Posted Saturday March 24 2012, 10:58 pm
Right so I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16, we have so much respect for each other and he's the one I want to lose my virginity to, i know you are all going to say "you way too young" but I know I'm ready! Nothing's going to change my mind... I've discussed the topic with him and he said its up to me, he would never push me into anything I wasn't ready for. I was just wondering where the best place to do this would be? Ehm also, I've done everything but sex with him... I might be staying at his sisters with him soon, should I do it then? I know I'm ready so no nasty comments thank you... I'm American so we're both under-age...
Please don't call me a 'slut', 'whore' ect... Because I'm not...
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Does he like me, or am I dreaming?
Posted Saturday March 24 2012, 8:33 pm
Oh boy. I've got it bad!
Me and this guy have been friends for about 6 months now, and he is just the awesomest guy I know! A little over a month ago, I broke up with my old boyfriend, and this guy was there for me and took me out to ice cream and made me feel better! I knew I enjoyed hanging out with him, but it wasn't until my Spring Break that I really realized how much I cared for him.
Over spring break, I went home, and he stayed where we go to college. But he drove 4 hours to come to my home town and we had so so much fun! He even put his arm around me, so I started to feel like he liked me too.
Since we have gotten back, we have gone out every night. The way he looks at me is just the mos...
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Guilty for Making Girlfriend Regret about Our Sex
Posted Saturday March 24 2012, 6:49 pm
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for half a year. We begin having sex recently the past months. Premarital sex isn't a common thing in our society, and this amount of time for dating is extremely short for sex. But we love and lust for one another very much. I made sure that she was OK with it.
However, recently she changed her mind about it. What devastate me is that she's feeling ashamed of herself for being unable to control her feelings and urges. What more is that she regretted it even if we both were extremely happy before.
I feel guilty for not foreseeing this when we come from the same background. I could have stop it. I love her so much, I just want her to stop feeling ashamed and regretting it. I...
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Is it normal to fall out of love?
Posted Saturday March 24 2012, 3:44 pm
First of all, this is my first boyfriend. And I just finished high school. I think it's ridiculous of how people "date" from elementary school because by then girls brag about how they've had like 20 boyfriends. Which just sounds awful to me. To me having a boyfriend is like a potential husband in the VERY far future.
I never even liked anyone until I met him. It wasn't instantly but after a couple of classes I realized what a great guy he was and not like all the immature guys in school. I never dated anyone before and he hasn't either and we just grew close and I guess everyone just knew before I did and one day he asked me out and that's how its been.
It was just wonderful and its been less than a ...
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