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Is my boyfriend over his ex and does he truly love me?
My boyfriend was dating this girl for a year and a half and they were broken up for about a month but still talking and saying they were going to fix things WHILE he was seeing me during that month, he was also having sex with a old lover of his while seeing me.. i found out after we were together that he was sleeping with the one girl and telling her that he loves her same with his ex girlfriend. we have been together for four months and live togehter ( weird i know) but it happened, when ever i bring any of them up he avoids it and tells me not to talk about them.. does he actually love me and is he over them? what are some ways to find out if he is over them completely? help please
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Oh dear. It sounds like he's not over them and what is worse-you're the person that could be driving you guys apart.
Number one rule: don't talk about his exes or even make him think about them! It looks like you're jelous and he may think you're subtly trying to suggest him to go back to her.
Just forget the past. Whats done is done. Unless he's unfaithful try to move on. Lifes too short. Instead of probing about his exes which will drive him away (in my personal experience) why not remind him why he is with you?
Play hard to get occasionaly, be flirty, prove to him you're an independant, strong kinda girl who doesn't hold grudges about any prevoius relationship he's had. By doing this, he's sure to be over them.
Also, its in a girls instinct just to know when a guy isn't happy in a relationship-ITS OBVIOUS. But if this point comes, try to work it out between you first. Otherwise you'll feel rubbish because typically in this case guys move on to a rebound relationship. And that breaks any girls heart.
Good luck :)
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the guy doesn't seem to be exactly over his ex but in general he really doesn't seem to know what he wants at all. And if you're living together that's pretty big... but just be careful sweetie.
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