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He won't present me to his family,is he ashamed of me?
(male,gay)Well,I have a boyfriend,we've been dating for almost two years and a half,but he hasn't presented me to his family as his partner,they do know me,though,but just as any other f***g friend of his,is he ashamed of me?We have been through this like a thousand times but I guess I'm just pretty tired of speaking and speaking all the time without coming to any solution,What can I do?This has already jeopardised our relationship 'cause I'm seriously thinking about dumping him,'cause I'm not a criminal,thanks in advance for your help!
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It sounds like he isn't ass open to being gay in front of his family as you may be. Maybe he is scared about what his family may think about him being gay. Now to you it might be easy to just say 'tell them already' but maybe for him its not that easy. Now that you have that information you have a decision to make. In the end its up to you and how you feel.
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There are many reasons for this... gay relationships and parentals... are ass because there seems to be so many problems unless you have amazing parents. His reasonings could be his parents don't know he's gay, have you ever asked if he told them? His parents could even know but not approve of it or just don't want to believe it He may have just come out to them and he isn't sure how to let you meet them. Or he may have never let his gay lover meet his boyfriend before so it's a big complicated step for him.
Just talk to him about it.
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Have you thought of the possibility that it's their reaction he's afraid of? They may know he's gay but might not like the idea of him having a partner. Then again, maybe he's not revealed that he's gay to them.
It's them he's worried over and not you. He obviously is out to protect you and doesn't love you less. Talk to him about how this bothers you and ask the reason for the behavior before being so quick to jump to conclusions and ditch a person.
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