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Guilty for Making Girlfriend Regret about Our Sex
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for half a year. We begin having sex recently the past months. Premarital sex isn't a common thing in our society, and this amount of time for dating is extremely short for sex. But we love and lust for one another very much. I made sure that she was OK with it.
However, recently she changed her mind about it. What devastate me is that she's feeling ashamed of herself for being unable to control her feelings and urges. What more is that she regretted it even if we both were extremely happy before.
I feel guilty for not foreseeing this when we come from the same background. I could have stop it. I love her so much, I just want her to stop feeling ashamed and regretting it. I'm out of ideas what to say and do to make her so. Please advice.
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I think the best thing to do is to sit down and talk about it (in person). You seem very confident where you stand on sex in your life, so tell her how you came to that. How it is that your happy having sex without being married.
Right now she's confused because she knows she didn't spend enough time thinking about what she wanted sex to mean to her. Only for marriage, love relationships, dating, whatever. Try and help her figure it out and tell her why you don't regret it, I'm hoping the answer is because you love her and wanted to have that closeness but if it isn't o well, be honest.
Gl and remember she's your gf, you love her and want her to be happy and feel good about herself, can't get that done by ignoring the situation
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