This alway happens to me even if I do stand up and show how angry I am it's like all of that is invisible. On friday at lunch all I got was half a chicken finger and a sip if tea, all the rest of my lunch was stolen by everyone. And they knew I didn't have breakfast and wouldn't be home till 8:00 that night. One of them started bothering me about this random guy that she thinks I like and is embarassing both him and I about it. Im at that age where telling a teacher puts you at the bottom of the food chain a d you look like a complete idiot. How do I deal with this? Thanks.
D_IS_AN_ANGEL answered Sunday March 25 2012, 6:32 pm: You know you're not alone same thing happened to me and it totally changed me.
You have to show people that you're not the type of a person to play around with its one chose another is you can just be honest. Tell your friends that take food from you to get their own cause you have to get your batteries full since you're coming home late. The girl that bothers you tell her to stop it and go embarrass someone else.
The same thing happen to me. There was this guy i did not know and kids kept trying to make me like him and be a sucker like the rest of them. Trying to get him and me hold hands. Seriously! I didn't even know the guy. SO one day it was getting so annoying and i got pissed so i screamed on top of my lungs telling them to leave us alone cause the guy hated it 2. That's when it stopped. I'm not asking you to do the same you just have to know a way to put them in their place and mind their own business. So you can either be mean and thell them to back off. or you can just be honest with them and tell what you feel.
I was mean ever since.But you sound like your a nice person so i'd suggest you be honest and tell them what you feel.
I'm sorry it's long
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