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boyfriends friends: He is splitting his leisure time between me & his male friends... is this a bad sign?
Is it a bad sign when your boyfriend splits his leisure time between you & his male friends
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If my boyfriend DIDN'T do this I'd be worried.
Balance is important in any relationship and it wouldn't be healthy for either of you to spend ALL your free time together. Everyone needs space and time apart.
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It's a fantastic sign. If you two were to live out your lives wrapped up in each other with little to no interaction with friends, you would go crazy. It might not seem like it now, but give it a year or so. Trust me, you won't want to be attached at the hip any more.
Even though my husband and I live together, we make sure that each has some time in the house on their own every week to enjoy being on their own or to hang out with friends. It keeps us sane.
You should only be concerned if he keeps blowing off plans with you to hang out with them.
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No if ANYTHING it's a good thing. Just because you have a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean you should stop hanging out with friends. At least that's my view. I like when my guy hangs out with his friends and i like to hang out with mine. It's also just plain old rude not to. Do you know how many girls justify "having a boyfriend" as a reason not to spend time with their friends, and then when they become single they aren't really as connected with their friends as before? ALOT. It's the same with guys. And girls/guys who don't like their partner hanging out with friends are most likely jealous and possessive. Is that you?
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It's a bad sign for him that his girlfriend has a problem with this.
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