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Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 1:59 pm

ok. i dont really know how to deal with this whole situation.
I like this guy..but i dont wanna even say anything to him b/c i have been there before with him. He would be really childish and rub it in my face later if hes not "into me" then. hes really sweet and ALL the other stuff. but i know later on (months ahead) he will just use it against me. hes the -Flirt with everyone- type. Does anyone have ANY ideas to get anything out of him

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my friend told me my bf is cheating on me....


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 1:37 pm

sorry this is so long but i REALLY need ALOT of help...please read it...=(

my friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me with TWO other girls..we dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT and her cousin goes to his school and said that he has other girlfriends. i love my boyfriend so much and just before she told me all this my boyfriend was on the phone telling me how much he loves me and stuff. i asked his friend about it because hes my really good friend too and he said he didnt know anything about it and he doesnt think my boyfriend would do something like that to me. i dont know. he wasnt home last night when i called so it kind of made me suspicious. i'm going to call him today and ask him about it b...

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New b/f trouble


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 11:44 am

OK there's this kid Nick who is really cute and yea i like him. He asked me out yesterday! and i have school tomorrow and like what do i do when i see him? i mean we are technically b/f and g/f but he hnags with the realli popular crowd im just popular so i dont really feel comfortable aroudn his friends. So my thing is... hwo do i approach him and what do i talk to him about? i mean he just broke up with his girlfriends 3 days ago and has a reputation for dating around and being kind of pressuring-ish... yea i know its sounds so thetic but idk if it'll work out. Any advice or comments plzzzzz

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UGH


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 11:17 am

Well there is this guy i use to like...well he told me he liked me in all right...well noe hes goin out with this gurl jenny..an well i told him im mad at him becasuse he lied to me..but i dont want him thinkin an tellin people that im mad becasue he dont like me ...which i dont like him anymore beaces he lied too me ..an i cant talk to him an tell him becasue i freakin hate him..ugh what do i do ...help me ...I RATE GGOOODD

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Confusing


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 10:55 am

Well 1st of all im askin advice on what to do heres my story, well I still like my ex g/f, we went out in may and broke it off in june, becuz she went to Ecuador 4 the summer,we both have had relationships since but I still liked her, & I didn't feel right cuz as I was going out with other girls I was thinkin about my ex, recently we've been hangin out a bit, and we r good friends and when we hang out she's always flirty cuz she's like a natural flirt, but like idk what to do and I like her alot...

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Dating


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 8:13 am

Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date?

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A couple of problems


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 3:16 am

I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?

The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really d...

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hmm..confoosed


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 1:31 am

i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do?

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All I want is him.


Posted Sunday November 28 2004, 12:45 am

There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it?

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how do i get over a guy i think im meant to be with


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 11:37 pm

I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.

how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?

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Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 11:28 pm

lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie ...

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Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 11:03 pm

Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like?

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*him*


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 10:05 pm

Dear avice columnist,

there is this really hot guy that goes to my school.He is so nice to me.but he has this girlfriend that is really pretty nd he is head over heals for her.I mean lyk in LOVE LOVE LOVE with her.But the thing is that when ever we are watching a movie in science class he turns around and talks to me sits on me lays on me nd my heart skips a beat everytime he does.But I dont think that he really likes me because of this over girl. she is Rich,can do alot of flips and splits in cheer and is pretty,so I dont think that he does but that does not keep me from wondering well maybe he does but I dont know.

Thank you,
Does he like me

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Self-esteem Issues - sorry this is super long!!


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 8:41 pm

My friends are a little jealous of me and don't even like to introduce me to their friends because their guy friends that they like might like me. This past week I was with my best friend and she finally started to go to college after a year off. She never really had many friends while growing up, just mainly me. Anyways, I spent a full week with her and she went to parties and everything. I was dragged along. I met people there and got along just fine with them. She got jealous. Then this guy she plays co-ed football with,we'll call him M, calls her one night to come over and see his new apartment so we went over there. After that, him and his roomies were awesome and wanted us both to come back again and just chill. She started having fee...

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i think my boyfriend is cheating..


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 8:36 pm

my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP

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Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 7:49 pm

what is jacking off? my bf says he does it and idk what it is?!?

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dunno what to do


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 6:43 pm

ahhhh long story
ok this guy ask me out few days before and i turn him down also he got classes with me so i dont kown how can i face him after the thanksgiving break is over so can yall help me out what should i do ?

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uh oh


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 6:15 pm

okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i?

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minority groups


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 6:13 pm

I've been "going out" with this guy ever since this party where we had to kiss for truth or dare...
we liked each other and talked every day for several days.
when we were talking on the phone, I asked him about the things he didnt like, and he said his siblings and gays.
His mom had made this one kinda racist joke that i heard abot african americans, and his brother had called me a name (I'm Jewish)
Could it just be a coincidence about his family? (I'm not gay or anything, but I believe in rights of minorities, being one).
Should I break up with him, or what?
<13/f>(sorry for it being so long)help!
(his family is kind of the rich white christian type but he seemed sweet)
-HeLpMe-

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Why do I feel like this??


Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 4:03 pm

I love my boyfriend dearly and everthing and I mean everything is going great and I am as happy as ever. But somehow I just feel like something or someone is gonna break us up...Like somethings gonna keep us apart... It makes me feel depressed...Maybe I feel this way because whenever I was in a relationship a guy, he never took it seriously...could this be why? and if it isn't then why do i feel this way?
Thanks in advanced :)


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