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my friend told me my bf is cheating on me....
sorry this is so long but i REALLY need ALOT of help...please read it...=(
my friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me with TWO other girls..we dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT and her cousin goes to his school and said that he has other girlfriends. i love my boyfriend so much and just before she told me all this my boyfriend was on the phone telling me how much he loves me and stuff. i asked his friend about it because hes my really good friend too and he said he didnt know anything about it and he doesnt think my boyfriend would do something like that to me. i dont know. he wasnt home last night when i called so it kind of made me suspicious. i'm going to call him today and ask him about it but i dont know how to ask him. i dont know if i should believe him if he says no either. what if he is? i dont THINK my friend would lie to me, but i never even met her cousin. and lately my boyfriends kind of been blowing me off though to be honest. like hes too busy for me. so i dont know im really confused. i dont know like if he says no im not cheating on you if i should believe him because what if he is? but i dont think he would admit it if he was. not many guys would be like OH YEA I AM CHEATING! you know? please help me..
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Oh wow. He sounds like a bastard. I think you need to confront him. Tell him that you have been hearin stuff from your friends and see what he says. It sounds to me that you have every right to think he's cheating on you. If I were you, I'd just break up with him and tell him it's not working out because he doesn't sound like he's worth the hurt. But if you're not ready to end it without proper evidence then definitely confront him. Hope I helped.
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Are you sure that this girl even has the right guy? Perhaps your friends cousin has mistaken him for somebody else and completely has the wrong end of the stick. If you are adamant that he's cheating and you need to find out for sure - then I'm afraid you'll have to resort to some evil tactics. Simply act really annoyed at him, and ask him who was the girl he was with on saturday (if possible find out where he was) - if he is cheating, then hopefully he will admit all. If not he may get a little annoyed - but that's what apologys are for. Tell him you must have had the wrong end of the stick - or seen somebody who looks like him. Hope I helped!
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talk to him about it. tell him that whoever it was taht told you heard that he was going out with two other girls. if you love him so much then let him go and know that if he loves you that he wouldn't ever let anything come between you. hope that i helped! good luck and hope all goes well >Rachel
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well get the facts ask the girls that he may be cheating on you with and ask them if they know that you are his real gf.. and if they don't then you all should gang up on him and be like ur scum!
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ok..whether or not she would lie is not the point.
You are going to have to ask him..ok...
Are you sure that she does not have some other motve...like jealousy?
if not then maybe you can do some detective work on your own or talk to your b/f cousin and find out the names of the girls.
Has he shown any kind of behavior?
I think the first person you should ask is him.
Either you trust him..or you do not...
but in the end..it is YOUR call
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Look at your options: You either since here in misery knowing wether or not he is cheating on you, OR, you jux ask him and at least me sure. If you study hard enough, you'll realize your options are limited. If he has been blowing you off, I think that kinda signals it. It's happened to me and yes he was cheating on me. So don't be a fool, let him know what the deal is....Good Luck!
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