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ok. i dont really know how to deal with this whole situation.
I like this guy..but i dont wanna even say anything to him b/c i have been there before with him. He would be really childish and rub it in my face later if hes not "into me" then. hes really sweet and ALL the other stuff. but i know later on (months ahead) he will just use it against me. hes the -Flirt with everyone- type. Does anyone have ANY ideas to get anything out of him
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He sound like an indecisive guy. Does he like you? Ask yourself why you put yourself through this...
Good luck!
~Laish
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OK, there is something here that doesn't make any sense to me. He's really sweet, AND he's childish, petty, and will use things against you in the future? Huh? That doesn't sound very sweet to me. It also doesn't sound like someone worth going out with, or even spending ten minuites thinking about. Why would you want to go out with a guy who will rub things in your face, be childish, use things against you (how can you wanting to go out with him be something that could be "used against you??"), and is a "flirt-with everyone" type? Yuck! Oh, is it because he's so cute and hot? Hmmm. Do you really have that low of an opinion of yourself? Are you so unlikeable that you would go out with a guy who treats you like crap, just because having a good-looking boyfriend makes you feel better about yourself? You wouldn't let an ugly guy treat you like dirt, so why does a hot guy get to?
Believe me, you are not the only person out there who does this. There are so many girls (and guys) who let guys treat them like crap just because they are so hot. That's why these guys keep getting away with being such jerks. So come on, everyone-- don't let people treat you badly just because you want to have a hot boyfriend. That's not hot, it's pathetic. Is that what you want?
Feel great about yourself, and date a guy who treats you with the respect you deserve! THAT'S hot!
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Don't ask him out or anything, MAKE HIM LIKE YOU. You probably have some insacuaties, just so you know, your pretty and stronger then you think. Talk to this guy alot more, be sorta flirty with him but not too much, MAKE HIM WANT YOU BAD, that always works for me.
YOU CAN DO IT,
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maybe this guy likes so many girls that he doesn't want to tell you. maybe you can get some of your friends and just him or the girls that you think that he doesn't like much to go do something toghether then if he doesn't like them much but he likes you he'll want to stay with you and while ya'll are together ya'll could flirt or what not then just casually ask him if he likes any one that he's been with over the night. let me know how it goes!
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