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"F*ck Buddies"
Posted Friday December 17 2004, 12:34 am
okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!
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condoms
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 10:46 pm
hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??
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Should i let him?
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 10:16 pm
Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch m...
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I WILL RATE!!!!!!!
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 9:57 pm
okay.. my parents are making me change schools after the break.. so tomoroe will be my last day at my school.. and i told my ex boyfriend that today and he seemed really sad.. but like.. hes really a hard core rapper.. guy.. and he was acting like he was really sad.. but.. i want to make tomoroe special to him because i really like him.. and i knoe he still likes me.. but i have no clue what to do..
** its a half day tomoroe.. and i will only see him in the halls.. **
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This boy
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 9:22 pm
SORRY THAT THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!I really, really, really like this guy(i know him really well), all my friends say we would be perfect together. We are both waiting till we get married to have sex, we both are christians and we both like the same things. The only problem is that he is 16 and my brothers friend and I am 13 and I think if me and Seth ever were to go out my brother would get mad and stop hanging out with him just so I wouldn't see him but my brother knows I like him and I think he knows that he likes me too. I just don't know what to do please help me I am so confused!
Signed,
Confused ;/
♥
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Umm what to do.. when u like a guy n stuff!
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 8:55 pm
Hey okay i am 14 f... a lil over weight, okay actually pretty big n all! but neways i like this guy.. we will call him "Teddy" neways, I like him sooo much, and were friends n all but i have like a big attitude n stuff but yeah neways... he likes one of my best friends n she likes him.. i dont wanna interfear but i liked him first.. he says im not fat n im not ugly, but i know i am!! but also i mean i liked him first and it really makes me jealous! does anyone have anyways i can get into shape loose weight n look good.. so he likes me even more i am currently 5'7 and almost 250 lbs.. i know about but still help me out here!! maybe making a big change n my life will help.. i mean my life is a lil messed up with family n all at the ...
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Ex-Boyfriend
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 8:55 pm
Me and my ex-boyfriend still like each other all tho he wont admit it, his friend tells me he still does. Me and Andy(ex-boyfriend) went out for a week, but we both thought it was akward. He is a year younger then me but I dont care, and I am not realy sure, but I wanna go out with him again. How should I try to start a relationship again, I already started again by being his friend, but what do I do now, I dont know if he will except me asking him out again.
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Blow him off
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 8:32 pm
Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it!
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Emotional Abuse??
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 7:55 pm
I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little whi...
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Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 7:44 pm
ok there is this guy that i think is pretty cute and well his locker is like 7 away form mine and his name is osama. tomorrow is our last day of school before winter break and i've been wanting to talk to him for a while now but i kept putting it off. we NEVER talked, he knows who i am bcz my friends talked to him n he said i was cute and he supposedly is gonna break up wit his gf cuz he likes me but umm idk, so far they're still together. my friend said i should just leave a note and give it so him saying 'hey im ..... call me sometime (number!) ... bye!' idk, he'll have 2 weeks to call so idk? wut should i write say do???????
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Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 7:27 pm
ok my question is that.. well my boyfriend asked me out march,13,2004 and i was like checking how long we been together but idk whats wrong!! bc its says like in feb something its like going to be 12 months and 12 months is like a year so idk im like all confused i count it again it said the same thing could like somebody like really help me please!! and thank you if you could help me!!
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lying crush
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 7:19 pm
I have this guy friend, we can call him Rob. Well Rob lied to me about something and i got mad and stopped talking to him. He was begging for forgiveness and asked my friend, let's call her Barb, to try to make me forgive him b/c he was seriously sorry. And i could tell that he was sorry, but i don't want people walking all over me, you know? But then he told Barb these things he wanted to tell me like "i'd swim the whole ocean to get to you and apologize" and he said i was beautiful. And no guy has ever said that about me. I've pretty much forgiven him but he tried SO hard to make me forgive him and it sounded like i really meant a lot to him (man that sounded snobby) and i'm wondering if i should ask him out. Does it soun...
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second chance?
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 5:13 pm
i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do?
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Make up or Break up?
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 4:59 pm
It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do?
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CONFUSION!
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 4:16 pm
ok here's whats goin go i went out with a boy named austin he was real shy but he also had a friend who I like more (we'll call him zack) zack was more open more fun he could make me laugh and he was really sweet and cute and flirty. well me and austin broke up and I really like zack but im not sure if he knows Ilike him. some of my friends asked him and at first he was I dont know then he said yes and he said he seriously does but I dont think he does because when Isee him he acts as though he has no idea who I am. but my friends insist that he does butj he hasn't done anything and it's been like 2 months and im afriad to make a move beacause I'm shy , not as a girlfriend ( as a grilfriend im real open) but to shy to ask him. what do...
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Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 12:49 pm
what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?
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HELP!!!!!1
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 7:44 am
OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks
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I really like this boy, but we moved too fast.. how do I act
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 2:50 am
I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act???
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Controlling......unsure of self
Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 1:32 am
well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scar...
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Confused
Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 11:54 pm
Do you guys think that telling a guy you like him is the right thing to do even if you dont know if he likes you back??
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