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lying crush
I have this guy friend, we can call him Rob. Well Rob lied to me about something and i got mad and stopped talking to him. He was begging for forgiveness and asked my friend, let's call her Barb, to try to make me forgive him b/c he was seriously sorry. And i could tell that he was sorry, but i don't want people walking all over me, you know? But then he told Barb these things he wanted to tell me like "i'd swim the whole ocean to get to you and apologize" and he said i was beautiful. And no guy has ever said that about me. I've pretty much forgiven him but he tried SO hard to make me forgive him and it sounded like i really meant a lot to him (man that sounded snobby) and i'm wondering if i should ask him out. Does it sound like he even likes me? by the way, i REALLY like this guy! Plz help!
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Dont just be with someone because they like you, did you even have any feelings for him before he said all that sweeet stuff to you? If you really think you like him though, then yeah go head and ask him out....you'll never know unless you try right..( ;
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It does sound like he likes you, but let him make the first move. Let him know, in a subtle way, that you are interested and let him take it from there.
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He SOUNDS like a sweet guy, but boys can be manipulative like that. Make sure he's a good one. Forgive, but don't forget.
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He's groveling, cut him some slack this time. Explain to him that this was the last time he lies to you because if you are going to have any relationship, you have to trust the person you care about. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be trying to walk on water to get you to forgive him. At least he has the good sense to know that he was wrong.
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Yes, it definitely sounds like he likes you. I think he's really sorry for lying. I would say give him a second chance, but don't let him do this again, because it'll just keep happening, and you don't want that! So I guess my answer is yes, you should ask him out, but don't let him walk all over you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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